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Medical abortion.

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UnknownAkF · 04/11/2021 11:52

Hi there,
I took the first pill yesterday for the medical abortion. Ready to do second part tomorrow. But I’m still suffering with really bad morning sickness. Is this normal. I’m absolutely terrified somethings going to go wrong!

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DAWG88 · 18/11/2021 18:26

Hope it goes ok for you hun.

I’m still waiting anxiously x

Username25 · 18/11/2021 18:29

It was a false alarm. Just a bubble feeling thought was blood but wasn’t. The wait continues…. 😖

DAWG88 · 18/11/2021 18:38

Fingers crossed it starts for us soon... I really didn’t want to take them orally x

Username25 · 18/11/2021 18:50

It has started now. Just checked. Good luck, I hope you’re ok and feeling alright emotionally etc. xx

DAWG88 · 18/11/2021 19:14

Thank you, same to you.

I think it’s upsetting now, but hopefully this feeling will pass. My partner is being brilliant so that helps too. I hope you’re ok too, here if otherwise. Thanks for being here today xx

Username25 · 18/11/2021 20:21

Good I’m glad you have support with you. I’m going to go to bed soon. Bleeding isn’t heavy just mild at the moment with mild cramps. Have taken some ibuprofen instead of any more condene. I’m put off codene for life now.

Xx

DAWG88 · 18/11/2021 20:24

I hope you can manage to sleep well. I’ve had quite a bit of cramping & blood.. my hot water bottle is my life saver at the moment. X

Username25 · 18/11/2021 21:05

Hope it’s not too painful for you. Have you topped up your painkillers?

I’ve got cramps but it’s manageable at the moment. If it gets really bad I may have to think about taking half a codene or something but for now it’s ok.

Am in bed with a film on. Feeling a bit sad now. X

DAWG88 · 18/11/2021 21:47

I haven’t topped up yet, but I will do when I get into bed properly. It’s absolutely horrible going through this, but I keep reminding myself of the reasons my partner & I have chosen.

I hope it feels better for you shortly. Have you had any dinner? I’ve felt so sick. I hope you have someone to talk to for support. Xx

Username25 · 19/11/2021 07:04

Thanks. Feel ok. Had lots of cramps etc during the night. Hope your night went ok and you were able to get some sleep x

DAWG88 · 19/11/2021 08:29

I couldn’t get to sleep until quite late, still having cramps this morning. How are you feeling? X

Username25 · 21/11/2021 05:48

Sorry only just seen this. I was fine by the following morning. Had a normal day with usual period like bleeding. I hope you’re ok and all is ok for you now. Thinking of you. X

loubear123 · 28/11/2021 18:21

@Username25 @DAWG88 sorry to jump on again. I took my second lot of tablets this morning at 9 then took the next 2 3 hours later at 12. Since then I've been bleeding really heavily, especially the past 4 hours to the point were if I've been sitting down and I stand up it just completely gushes out. Soaks through the pad my knickers and my pants! Did this happen to either of you or is this not normal?

LizMyles · 28/11/2021 20:22

Hello,

Sorry I’ve only just seen your message. I hope you’re ok. I think they say excessive bleeding can be an issue. I didn’t soak through any pads. I did change them every hour or so though and had to double up overnight.

Hope you’re ok.

Did they advise that you could take all tablets in one day?

I think there are different methods but the one I did I had to wait 24 hours between doses

DAWG88 · 29/11/2021 08:50

@loubear123 I’m so so sorry I’ve only just seen this. Mine was similar to yours for the first 24 hours and then over the weekend it was just similar to a very heavy period.

I had to wait 24-48hrs between taking the second pills, which was maybe different to yours. If you’re unsure of what you’re experiencing and doesn’t feel right, maybe ring the advice line on a leaflet you should have?

Hope things improve for you lovely x

Mistlewoeandwhine · 29/11/2021 09:14

💐 to all the women going through this. Make sure you take good care of yourselves xx

DAWG88 · 29/11/2021 10:26

@Mistlewoeandwhine I think it’s a process that never really leaves you. Reiterating your comment too, take care of yourselves & be kind to yourself. Lots of love to anyone that may read this and go through it x

Jakiii · 23/12/2021 00:08

Hi guys I’m just writing to you in the hopes I get some reassurance I’m going for a medical abortion
My anxiety is through the roof on the what ifs like ie what if I die what if it doesn’t come away. I know crazy I even think like that but I’m such a worry head. I will be 4 wks when I get it done can anyone give me reassurance xx

DAWG88 · 23/12/2021 08:09

@Jakiii Hey sweetie. We can’t guarantee anything as we aren’t medical professionals on here but what I can tell you from my experience is that the whole thing - with bleeding lasted a week. I had painful cramps but with painkillers that should subside. I was lucky not to have many other side effects. Make sure you have a hot water bottle and lots of fluids. Be kind to yourself and try to rest hun. If something doesn’t seem right or normal to you then please ring an advice line. Best of luck with everything xx

Jakiii · 23/12/2021 08:30

Thank you so much! It’s such a scary thing but I know it’s what I want xx

DAWG88 · 23/12/2021 09:02

@Jakiii it’s absolutely terrifying- well I found it so scary, but the ladies who replied on here were so kind so it reassured me. All the best with it & just pop on here if you need a chat or anything! Xx

Jakiii · 23/12/2021 09:04

Thank you so much! Xx

User0892 · 06/01/2022 20:37

Hi
I am having my first part of medical abortion tomorrow. I already have two little ones so another just just not work for my and my partner. So scared whats to come? Can anyone that has been here give me a little info i keep thinking i will be an unlucky one and it wont work for me :(

DAWG88 · 06/01/2022 21:35

@User0892 Hey lovely. We’ve all felt nervous & anxious, it’s normal. Just take good care of yourself and follow the instructions. For me the first pill didn’t do anything other than make me feel a bit sick.. you’ll feel bad cramping with the second lot so make sure you have some pain relief & a hot water bottle on hand. Again with me, the bleeding took a few hours to start, I gather that’s normal as I had another lady on here who went through the same thing at the same time. I bled for just over a week, the first few days were very heavy but we’re all different hun. If you have any concerns afterwards, ring the advice line if you have a leaflet. Best of luck & lots of love to you x

HPLikecraft · 06/01/2022 21:48

@User0892 my daughter had a medical abortion a few months ago while she was staying with us and she said it was OK - just like a heavy crampy period. She was actually quite pleased at how easy the whole process was.

I hope it goes well for you .