Hi, no judgment here please before I start, this is really hard for me
Me and my partner decided to call it a day, I hadn't been happy for a long time and a guy I used to see before my current partner (6 years ago) came back into my life and made my decision really easy. I was confused but felt like it was the right thing to do.
I stopped taking my pill after years and years about 2 months ago as it was affecting my moods and me and my current partner used condoms as contraception, but I almost always nearly forgot as I'm so used to being on the pill!
I had sex with the guy that came back into my life unprotected as I once again forgot (he did pull out)
But I have also recently 2 days later had unprotected drunken sex with my partner who I left! (He didn't pull out) It's all such a mess. I went to get the morning after pill but as they worked out my ovulation which I do track on flo app, they said it won't be effective as i have possibly already ovulated.
I don't know what to do, I'm not ready for another child (I have a 3 year old) and money is so tight as it is, I am in a job I love and I just am not ready.
Basically what I am trying to say is I have stupidly accidentally had unprotected sex over my ovulation days and am so worried I will be pregnant and not know who the dad is. 🥺
I always said to myself I would never have an abortion as it's personally not something I could live with myself, but I feel like this is now my only option and I'm just so scared.
Has anyone else been through anything like this or can offer any advice or support 🥺
Thanks for listening x