Hi,
I would just like to give some support for any mothers going through this very difficult time. I found out I was pregnant when my first child was 6 months old and me and my husband made a unanimous decision to not go ahead with the pregnancy so that we could focus on the child we already had and give her the best start in life and attention that she deserved. My daughter - now 3 thrived from this decision and has become the most wonderful little girl. A few years after making the decision we decided it would be nice for her to have a brother or sister and we welcomed my son 5 months ago. Since the birth of my son I read a thread which spiralled me into a guilt ridden mess, however I just want anybody that has been through this to know you are not a bad person for prioritising your existing children when making such a decision. If anything you are so so brave and you are not alone because I have done the same xxxxx