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[blackkat97]

Hi,

So I'm 23 currently 15 week pregnant. The dad wants absolutely nothing to do with it. We was never together we just slept with each other the once. I didn't find out till 4 weeks ago I was expecting but just before I found out, my ex who I love so much has come back into my life to see if we could work.
I found out I was pregnant when we brought it up in conversation and we did a test.

He said he will support my decision. But if he wouldn't be able to bring himself to be in a relationship with me if I had a child but we could remain friends.

I'm just stuck on what to do, should I have the baby and just be friends with my ex or have a termination and take the risk that me and my ex will rekindle and be good together and even start our own family??

Also has anyone ever had a surgical termination before ?

The real question is what do YOU want? Do you want to have the baby? If yes, then don’t terminate.

Personally I would not terminate a baby I wanted on the off chance that I might be able to get back together with an ex. Especially if I was already far along in the pregnancy. Any man who truly loves you would accept both you AND your child and not put pressure on you to choose between having a relationship with them or having your baby. That’s nuts.

Wish you all the best with whatever you choose!

If your ex didn't come back in your life, what would you of done? Try not let your feelings for him sway you on this one, it may or may not work out with him, remember he is an ex, you know in your heart if the problems you had can be resolved.