Called for the pills, phone broke - is this a sign?

[Mumsnorthernmonkey]

I’m pregnant by a hook up and he’s deleted his profile. It could also be a married guy who I dumped on the same week.

So the baby daddy isn’t a good situation.

I called BPAS and was supposed to have a consult later in the day. Phone broke and I only got it resolved two days later.

I’m really not sure about the pregnancy. How can you be? I’ve had one 4 years ago and it was so easy to decide. This time I’m 50:50. If the baby daddy was around - I would keep.

I’ve decided to get a scan - I’m thinking it could be twins (based on a very strong line). Probably stupid thinking but if it’s twins I will keep. I would want my child to have a sibling. I’m not close to mine but I would think it’s important and they can also play together.

Last night I was crying a lot. Today I’m calmer.

I don’t have much going on in my life. Covid is a worry because I think the economy is well and truly shattered. So I don’t know.

Depends on how you feel about the pregnancy. Do you feel you want to have a baby? Would your family be supportive? Would you be willing to be a single mum? You have no obligation to tell either guy legally. Morally might be a different issue but the decision is yours alone. There’s a lot of support out there if you choose to keep it. You know your situation best.
It sounds like maybe you’re considering carrying on the pregnancy(going for a scan makes it a lot more real and harder to detach). I wouldn’t base my decision on whether it’s twins or not. You could have this baby now and in the near future have another with a different partner. It really comes down to how you feel about it. Best of luck!

People regret abortions but never regret a child

@emxx20

People regret abortions but never regret a child

People do regret children but they are less likely to mention it. You could argue that it is better that to regret an abortion than regret a child.

pcar why don’t you take your anti choice bullshit sources to somewhere they’ll be welcome? Like the bin. This isn’t the forum for you

emxx this isn’t remotely true