Abortion/termination

[ChanelK1234]

Hi guys, i'm finding myself here as i generallt need advice from people who have maybe gone through similar situations. Ive missed my period and found out today that I am pregnant. The problem is it's potentially out of 4 dads and none of them want to know, which tbf I cant blame them. I am not finacially ready to have a child & i already have a 3 year old son, whom is on the spectrum. I am feeling very depressed as I want to keep the baby but know I cannot give it the life it deserves given my current circumstances.

Unless you had sex with four different men in a two week window (Jesus I see you’ve been Doing a good job of socially distancing) surely you can work out who it can be?

Hi OP, we've moved this to our Pregnancy Choices topic - you may get more of a response there.

No judgement here. It will more than likely be whoever you were with 1-2 weeks after your last period. Regardless, if you choose to continue with your pregnancy it'll be a good idea to get a DNA test. But if none of them want to know anyway, and likely won't in the future, this may not matter to you unless you're hoping to seek maintenance from them or want to be able to tell your child when they're older who their dad is.

You should be eligible for counselling when it comes to deciding what to do. Get in touch with your GP and explain that you're considering a termination and are looking for help with that. Alternatively, you can go straight to your local termination provider, whether that be the hospital, a clinic, Marie Stopes, etc. It differs depending on where you live.