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Pregnant and the father wants an abortion

2 replies

00flower · 22/07/2020 18:57

Hi,

I’m so glad I found this forum. I feel like my world is crumbling around me right now.
I’m 7 weeks pregnant and the father wants no involvement whatsoever- this is the second time I’ve gotten pregnant (I had an abortion the first time). I was on the pill but still got pregnant and feel so stupid for letting this happen again, I wanted to keep it but he keeps contacting me and saying all these horrible things. It is making me doubt myself, like do I really want this type of person in my life forever? From what he is showing me now it seems he will not rest until he gets what he wants. Hehas even gone as far as drafting a non-disclosure agreement for me to sign. It’s utter nonsense but to give you an idea of how hurtful it is- I have to acknowledge that he is not the father and he did not get me pregnant. I already agreed to keep away and keep his name off the birth certificate but he still wants to protect himself. I’m totally lost and have just booked a consultation for an abortion, this is not what I want but I don’t know if I can live with this kind of torment.

I really need help

OP posts:
Ragtaggirl · 22/07/2020 23:25

I've sent you a message.

DulciUke · 24/07/2020 22:34

He's an abusive twat, OP. He sounds awful. Don't sign anything and don't let him bully you into an abortion if you don't want one. Perhaps you could try Women's Aid? I'm sure that they have talked to many women in your situation.

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