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Fear of termination failure

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Lenooo · 04/05/2020 13:16

Hi all,
I'm just looking to see if anybody might have the same situation as mine, I'm a single mum of 3, happily getting on with life and doing well, on 17/04/20 I found out I was pregnant, straight away I knew inside it wasnt what I wanted, I called the local clinic and started medical abortion procedure.

On 20/04/20 in the presence of doctor I took first pill, I was giving 2 other pills to bring home as well as a low sensitivity pregnancy test to take 2 weeks later (today)

On the 21/04/20 I placed the 2 tablets i was giving to take home under each side of my mouth under my gum and let dissolve for 30 mins, I places them at 9.30am finished at 10.00am and start bleeding heavy at 10.15am with diarrhoea, I was surprised how quickly I start bleeding, by 12pm I had bad cramping and everytime I went to the toilets der was always a little mass of clots in the bottom of the toilet and I could feel little clots come out as I had a wee,

I stopped bleeding heave on day 3 and spotted until day 9 and then stopped bleeding completely.

Today I took the low sensitivity test as directed as it is 2 weeks since my abortion and it came up positive, my breast are still tender and my sence of smell keeps going crazy.

I still feel pregnant but I'm really hoping I am not.....

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Lenooo · 29/01/2021 08:13

@Bell2000 try not worry all will be ok, try contact ur clinic ASAP thevsame happened to me i rank the doctor who done the procedure for medical abortion and she referred me to the maternity hospital and i had an internal scan and I was still pregnant but was reassured everything will be fine I was giving again the usual 3 days and was then brought in for a surgical I was home an all 3 hours later im now 9 months after it all and doing really well, I can add u on Instagram if u like and talk to u when u need it xx

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Bell2000 · 29/01/2021 09:53

@LenoooThank you so much for this advice I’m only 17 and couldn’t get help from nowhere else but straight after the abortion they did an internal scan and couldn’t see anything do you think they coukdv missed it

Lenooo · 29/01/2021 10:24

@Bell2000 if they done an internal it should be complete, I wouldn't worry it can take anywhere from 14 to 21 days for hormones to settle 16 days after mine i was still getting a faint line on pregnancy test and I had a surgical one in the end, I no its hard waiting but it will be fine even months after mine I was still worrying it hadn't worked even though I knew it had

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Bell2000 · 29/01/2021 10:32

I just don’t understand why I’m still peeing frequently even though it’s been three weeks

Lenooo · 29/01/2021 11:30

Have u done a test, ur body is probably just coming back to normal, u could be ovulating or even getting a new period the symptoms can be similar

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Bell2000 · 29/01/2021 12:25

I’ve got the abortion clinic test on me now I’m going to do the test in ten minutes I’m so scared but hopefully it’s negetive

Bell2000 · 29/01/2021 13:23

It’s a negetive but thank u for the advice I appreciate it x

Lenooo · 29/01/2021 13:24

Aw brilliant im so so happy for u now u can move on and enjoy life 💗

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Bell2000 · 29/01/2021 19:59

@Lenooo thank u so much uv been thru it worse n I’m happy ur better now

Lenooo · 29/01/2021 20:15

Im delighted for u its not easy thing to go through u are stronger than u think x

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