Think it is right...just don't want to.

[LotsToThink]

Its a unplanned pregnancy, we was using protection but obviously didn't work. And on far to much thinking on my side...I think I know deep down the best thing to do is go ahead with the abortion. I always used to say I would never ever have one yet here I am thinking about going ahead with it. I feel so so guilty about it and keep wondering how well/or not I'm going to cope after this. I also feel that I shouldn't have children in the future because this is my chance now. I honestly know it's wrong to be feeling like it but I can't help it. Just looking for some guidance I guess.

What are your circumstances? Why would this be your only chance?

Personally I would abort. I've never wanted kids either though. At least not...home grown ones lol. And no way in hell would I want to end up having to go to hospital 9 months from now if this crisis is still ongoing.

I think baby hormones confuse you. They are meant to trick you into bonding with the kid. But realistically it's just a clump of cells atm.

Dont feel guilty about protecting yourself.

Good luck either way

Wanderlust makes a good point about the hormones. Don't underestimate them.

Get a referral from your gp for some professional telephone counselling to help you make the decision that's best for you.

Thank you all for your messages. I have an appointment tonight so see what happens there.