Hi, I’ve recently found out I’m pregnant after my conception failed as did the morning after pill. I haven’t yet missed my period but have had a number of positive early pregnancy tests and feel pregnant too. I’m about 3.5 weeks. We only ever planned to have two children and I feel my family is already complete and while my husband is supportive of what ever I want to do we both feel that this isn’t what we planned and a third baby would put a strain on our finances and we are just starting to regain some normality after having our first two. Neither of us feel that it would be in the best interest of our family, however I feel horribly guilty. I’ve already booked an appointment for a consultation for a termination with bpas but the earliest I could get was 1.5 weeks away. Then I’ll need to wait for another appointment for the procedure. My feeling is that if I need to wait for another few weeks I’d prefer to go down the surgical route as medically managed scares me and our children are fairly young so I don’t feel home would be the ideal environment. I’m sure that a termination is the right choice but I know it’s going to become harder each week my pregnancy progresses and as the embryo develops. My main question is is there anyway of getting the tablets sooner if I go private? Would I be naive in thinking that if I took them at four weeks it would be relatively straight forward? Also does anyone know the earliest you can have a surgical abortion? Finally how long have others had to wait between a consultation and a surgical abortion? This pregnancy wasn’t planned and I’m devastated I’m in this position but don’t feel that continuing the pregnancy out of guilt is a good enough reason so I’m wanting to terminate it as soon as I can before I become more emotionally invested and before the embryo grows any more. I already have some nausea and the idea of being pregnant for another few weeks while the embryo develops is breaking me.