Pregnant and need advice

[macaroniandpizza]

Im 9wks tomorrow and had booked a termination booked for tomorrow at 2pm but i have cancelled it. I fell pregnant after sleeping with someone i know who was separated from his dp but has since got back with them. He wants me to get rid so that it doesnt come out that we slept together. My family also want me to get rid too as it isnt a very good situation. I know its not ideal but im so torn. Ive done it once with my ds who is now 4 im sure i could do it again but the fact that so many people are against me going ahead with the pregnancy is making me wonder if im doing the right thing going ahead

The fact you don't want to go through with it means you shouldn't.
Your mental health could be severely affected for years to come.
Never mind protecting this man or upsetting your family.
Do what is best for you and your well being and future.
Other people shouldn't be a consideration.
Good luck

Reality is yes it will be difficult but you know that a large you’ve been there before.
I would tell the father that you are keeping the baby but that you are absolutely not expecting him to be involved and you won’t be putting him on the birth certificate. Yes, that does mean you can’t get any financial support from him, but if you are serious about doing this alone then I would do that.
Family will come around. It may take time and it will be stressful but if you have any doubts about the termination I wouldn’t go through with it for now.
You still have a few weeks to decide.