Hi there, I need a bit of advice. Me and my husband had sex 3 weeks ago, the condom split slightly and I wasn't on any other form of contraception. I didn't think id likely get pregnant as the majority of the semen was caught. However today I have found out that I am pregnant (approx 4 weeks) but can't decide whether to keep the baby. There are too many negative factors, low income ive recently been made redundant and still looking for a job so we rely on husbands sole income. We have insufficient housing (already cramped as it is) my own health problems (arthritis in my knees and feet plus severe asthma) plus 3 kids already which are a handful. The only benefit is that this child would be very loved and I'm 32 now so this would be my last chance as I don't want another when I'm older. BUT I doubt we would cope in all honesty and in my head it would be cruel to bring a baby into this situation and it would also be unfair on my other children as they need so much time and attention right now and have things planned for next year which would halt them if a baby came. Adoption isn't an option as I know I would never be able to go through with it as I can become emotionally attached to easily. I know it's my decision and I am leaning more one way but I just wondering what choice you ladies would make in this situation. Thanks