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Help or advice please?

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Catlover10 · 17/10/2019 23:28

Hello I had been getting symptoms for a week or so (extreme nausea and literally gagging on my usual breakfast of weetabix) and cramping and sore nipples and crying over everything on the telly. I did a pregnancy test today (I did 2) and it came back positive.

I wasn’t trying, I am scared and confused what to do. I don’t really want to tell my parents right now.

I told my boyfriend of 6 months who told me to “please sort it out” and said his head was all over the place and that i needed to get rid of it

I have no children, I’m 25. I don’t know if I want to “get rid of it” though. Maybe I want to keep it. I want to talk to somebody professional who can give me some advice and talk through things with me as I don’t really have anybody to talk to. Who/what can I contact and visit or phone that would be able to help me make decisions and explain everything to me ? Thank you , I have no idea what he next step is when you get a positive test

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Catlover10 · 17/10/2019 23:41

I am in the UK by the way .

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HerculesMulligan · 18/10/2019 08:01

Have a look at the Marie Stopes website, OP. They have lots of information there and if you want to talk to someone about your circumstances and your decision, they can help. Best wishes to you.

JoanneMumsnet · 18/10/2019 13:23

Hi Catlover10, we're going to move your thread over to our Pregnancy Choices topic - hope that's okay. Flowers

Notnowokay · 20/10/2019 12:08

Go to your gp and ask for help. They can sign post you to local groups that can help.

Catlover10 · 31/10/2019 16:07

Thanks for the help, I have decided to keep the baby and am now getting the required support from the health services :)

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