Hi
I’m married with 2 kids
I have the copper coil
I’m 6 weeks pregnant!!
Marriage is rocky,
Separated last year and now back together. My choice to separate, my husband wants to stay married. It mainly due to losing a lot of respect of my husband which I doubt will return.
Anyway I’m 6 weeks pregnant, i work as and have 2 kids 4yrs and 7yrs.
I have recently found my feet, have a good social circle, enjoy going out and I’m a keen runner, in a running group and I participate in running events at least monthly.
So now I have a massive dilemma, now I’m pregnant I’m thinking awww a little baby and a full nest and I have all the emotional attachment.
However I fear I’ve forgotten how brutally hard it is, the impact on my body. My life would go on hold. How could I afford childcare or another child. The extra stress etc.
So I don’t know what to do. My HUsband says it will be too hard and does not want another one. But will stand by me whatever decision I make.
I’m really torn, any advice would be useful please?
Also I’ve had coil removed and so far they think it is a viable pregnancy and does not appear to be ectopic.