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Struggling with what to do.

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Climbmountains911 · 09/09/2019 22:04

I'm really struggling right now I'm 7 weeks pregnant and I really don't know what to do. Time is running out as if I wanted an abortion it would have to be medical as I couldn't go through surgical. I tried to phone around today for done counselling but no where does it and it's only over the phone.
I don't feel I could afford another child as I have 2 kids already and feel it would be unfair on them (esp money wise) if we brought a third one in.
I feel I wouldn't cope with my mental health as two are enough my youngest is only 6 months.
Me and my partner live a part right now but he stays at mine mostly.
I just feel it's not the right time but I feel abortion will mess me up like when I was 17 (sexual abuse).
I have been thinking about open adoption but I don't know if anyone in my support network would support with with this.
My partner says he wants to keep it but it's up to me and he will support me with whatever I do.
Ugh.

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Climbmountains911 · 14/09/2019 19:48

Bump

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Sparkless · 15/09/2019 21:30

This is really sad, considering what you have been through when you were 17.
You know what’s best for you and if it’s not the right time.
I definitely think you should talk someone though x
Good luck

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