I am currently 8 weeks pregnant and get married at the beginning of May, when I will be 10 weeks. My o/h and I cannot decide what to do for the best in terms of telling people. We have already told immediate family and couple of very close trusted friends, but that is all.
The concern is that up until I found out I was pregnant I was a smoker and I have never been one to shy away from the prosecco at a party! We don’t want people to guess / find out at the wedding and I don’t want to spend my wedding day worrying about covering it up either. If people are going to find out then we of course want it to be on our terms. Further to this, our honeymoon was booked for Mexico and this is public knowledge. We have now cancelled this and booked one in Europe instead due to the Zika virus being pregnant in Mexico, which would be another thing for us to try and hide.
We have a private early reassurance scan booked for this week and I have read that so long as there is a healthy heartbeat at this point then the odds of miscarriage are (whilst not as low as they are at 12 weeks) greatly reduced. So, we are thinking of telling people ahead of the wedding if all is okay with the scan so there will be no worrying about pretending to drink, dodging questions or not being able to pop off for a rest on the day (pregxaustion!). I just wondered what peoples thoughts are on this please? Thanks.