Abortion at 14-15 week?

[inthedarkx]

Can anyone share their experiences having an abortion at 14-15 weeks? I'm 13+1 but by time I get the treatment I will be 14-15 weeks. Have no choice to do this even though I don't want to.

If you don't want to, you really shouldn't do it. Is someone trying to force you?

There's another thread. Apparently husband will leave if she doesn't.

Let's face it op if you do this your marriage is dead too. So you must do what you see best and he can go fuck himself.

I don't want one but I'm thinking about how I will cope with 6 kids. And I just want to know the abortion process at this stage in case I do have one. Is it the same as giving birth at this stage?

You are being coerced. It's not a 'treatment', it's a bully trying to force you into this.

@inthedarkx It'll be painful, lonely and emotionally draining and your husband won't be there for you.

I know this because he is forcing you to make a decision you don't want to make like an abuser.

Tell the people at the clinic why you're doing it, they will refuse to do it. Then it's not down to you, is it?

Sounds like you would cope better with 6 dc than the aftermath of an abortion you don't want op...

U keep saying I don't want one!

Don't do it op!
It's ur body and ur life.. I think u will struggle after if this is how u feel now..

@inthedarkx any update hun? Was watching this thread. I think the fact you've posted on here feeling the way you do shows deep down you yourself might not want to get an abortion so far gone? Your feeling 50/50 maybe? This is similar to another post I read and she was worrying about raising 6 kids and another baby, lots of people were saying she doesn't need a man to do a woman's job! Your a naturally good mother if you've already raised a child let alone more, give your self a chance and your baby don't let anyone make u do anything u do not want to do x if u want to keep ur baby then keep it don't listen to no body x huggs x

Don't do it.You may never forgive yourself,It's hard enough having one that you do want.

Don't do it if you don't want to no man that loves u should force u into this! Get him gone and raise that baby with all of your love. Don't need a man to do a woman's job!!❤️ you've said u don't want one so don't feel forced because u will loose all ur love for that man won't be together and wish you'd kept him or her x it'll have a massive weight on ur relationship if u get rid to because it'll always be on ur mind and u will look at him in despice at it was him that made u do it. Trust urself

So what’s right for you but your other thread has made it clear this is not what you want.

I can’t imagine looking after 6 children is that different to caring for 5.

6 really isn't much harder with 5 already. Ime.

Playing devils advocate. What if you go ahead with the abortion then a few weeks from now he walks anyway? He's already left once, he could do it again. Then you'll have had an abortion you didn't want and still have no husband. Not that he sounds worth keeping anyway.

Thanks everyone
Your all right. I don't want to go through with an abortion at this stage. I know I can do it. All I'm scared about the spiteful actions he could do when we are no longer together but practically I know I can bring 6 kids up alone

You’ll have a general anaesthetic so it’s not like giving birth. The staff are generally very kind and lovely.

@inthedarkx course you can. He doesn't sound like much of a man you should have round you whilst being pregnant or in general! He sounds like a little girl! Controlling

There's another thread. Apparently husband will leave if she doesn't.
OMG. Just horrific. I know which one would be gone from my life, and it wouldn't be the baby.

I had a termination at 15 weeks due to Edward's Syndrome. It was quite painful, like your worst period pain.
I was in a side room on a ward. It took about 10 hours. My DH was with me throughout the process. It was a horrible experience, emotionally rather than physically.
Good luck with your decision 💐