He left me alone, broken, depressed & I’m thinking of having an abortion😰

[Betsyx]

I’ve been with my bf for 2yrs now. Lately he started being distant & wouldn’t call me or text me at all. He came to see me a week before Valentine’s Day & he had his phone on flight mode. I questioned him, he got angry & left. I didn’t hear from him not even on Valentine’s Day. I was very upset, I saw him 2 weeks & saw a love message he sent to another girl on Valentine’s Day. I confronted him & he said is nothing when am I taking him to see my dad he wants us to get married. I’ve been asking him to propose but he keeps saying is just a ring.

I was very upset cause he’s clearly cheating on me. I found out I’m pregnant, he doesn’t call me, I’m so depressed as I have no money & just started a new job. We were supposed to be planning for a house & wedding & he treats me like this? I want to have an abortion but I’m so upset & scared but I know I can’t have this baby on my own.

He hasn’t spoken to me in weeks, he says he can’t waste his time on me anymore. I always wanted to get married then have kids with a guy who loves me. This guy has hurt me so much.

Which method do you all suggest? I won’t be able to see all that blood as it would make me feel worse

Have you told him your pregnant?

You could absolutely do this on your own. If you want to.

Sounds like you don't though. I think in your shoes I would feel the same. You deserve so much better than being treated like this.

Start by going to see your GP and they will be able to provide support to help you decide what to do.

He sounds like a vile man. I’m sorry you’re going through this. Personally if I was in your situation I would abort. Rather than be tied to this man. But it’s obviously a hard decision but I would go to see a clinic to speak about options. How far along do you think you are?

unfortunately there will be blood with any method of abortion.
During a surgical abortion the whole pregnancy is removed so you won’t pass the pregnancy at home unlike the medical managed abortion.
It’s best to discuss this with your GP.
I’m sorry you’re going through this, wishing you the best.

@Betsyx I'm sorry you're going through this. As the others have said he sounds vile, you deserve better and you WILL get over him. You can do it. You know what you deserve and know you want better for yourself.
If you have thought long and hard and definitely can't go ahead with having the baby then you're making the right decision for you.

You'd be better discussing the options with your doctor. I had a surgical recently as I'm not a candidate for medical due to health problems. Unfortunately I had complications after surgery and got kept in. So if you have other health problems make sure you discuss this in depth with your doc. Surgery is a huge stress on your body.

I hope you're okay, try to be as strong as you can and close the door on the guy.