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Mixed feelings

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LMW1990 · 04/03/2018 20:37

I found out yesterday that I am pregnant. It's come as quite a shock as me and DP were not TTC and I was on the pill. I have a really sporadic cycle ranging from 28 to 40 days so being late is not unusual. But I felt different this time. My boobs are like rock I'm having period like pains but no bleeding and stretching feeling in my groin and stomach. I've had 2 bouts of sickness and generally feel nauseous and dizzy. I'm trying to work out how far along I might be but I'd be guessing. My last period was on 12th Jan.

My DP has 2 children from a previous marriage. He's 30 and I'm 28.

We are both filled with dread as we do the know how people will react to this situation.

We've talked and cried today and to be honest I'm not sure if we'll see this through.

I'm heartbroken that we're having make a decision as I do want children but I want it to be when we are trying and both fully on the same page.

I have made an appointment to discuss a termination but the nearest I can get in on 12th March. A week seems like an absolute age to wait!

Not sure what I'm asking here I just needed to write this down.

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