Medical termination.

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I live about 30 mins away from bpas. I have no one to take me so I thought I will drive myself there. Do you think I would be able to drive my way back too? It's a maximum of 30 mins. What's your opinions?

Put a towl on the bed X I have two LO, its not easy when u have dependants to care for too. Sleep well. X

How are you today? X

A lot better, thanks. My bleeding is normal, not as heavy as I thought and my cramps are completely gone. I just have a bad migraine. That's all really! I'm just glad it's all over and done with.

How do you recover emotionally from this? I need some tips and advice, I found the physical side not as bad as the emotions..

I just remind myself why I made the decision i did. And just do something to take your mind off things. Personally, it's just me and my husband who know about this and I've just come to my mum's for the week just to relax and take my minds off things x

Hope ur feeling better this week. X

A lot better thanks. How are you? X

Hello

I know you've not posted in this thread for a while but I'm booked in at BPAS tomorrow
I have a DC of 8 months and now is just the wrong time for a baby. We only ever wanted 1.
But I'm so sad about it, and was wondering how you feel emotionally now?
I hope you are ok x

@Xyzgh hi there. All I can say is not to worry. It will all be over and done with before you know it. Surround yourself with people who will support you. In my case, only me husband knew so he was at home with me. He looked after my little one while I was in bed and trying to stay calm. Whenever you feel you’re struggling emotionally just remind yourself why you made the decision you did make and that you do what you thought was best in your situation and no one can make that judgement for you.
I hope everything goes well tomorrow and just message whenever. I’m sure we can all help each other xx all the best

Sorry, I forgot to stress that make sure that it is YOUR decision too since it’s you that’s dealing with this physically.

It is my decision (we'll jointly) after much talking and crying.
What I want is a time machine but that's not possible so it seems termination is next option.
It's just so bloody sad. Xx thank you xx

Hi. How are you feeling today

Hi I've just come across your thread I've booked in with BPAS for next week. I'm about 4 weeks and wanted a medical abortion too. I'm really scared, I live alone with D'S. Just worried if it goes wrong or something. How was your experience?

For me it was just like a heavy period. But nothing bad at all. Didn’t need pain killers.
I have an 8 month old and did have my husband with me but he works away a lot and know what it’s like to be alone and I would have managed fine.
But everyone is different, try and have someone with you if you can
If you’re struggling don’t hesitate to message me xxx

xyz thank you. Just so daunting. I've only told 1 friend and can't tell my family. Not sure if I'll have to take the tablet on the Same day as I have to have a consultation first. Hopefully it's on the same day.