I found out yesterday I'm five weeks pregnant. Not planned. We were using a mixture of condoms, withdrawal, and not having sex around my fertile window.
Long term partner, 7 years and we are getting married next month. I'm 26 and he's 32 (if that makes any difference at all to things!)
We have a house (mortgaged) that we've been in a year. As well as a cat, a dog and a tortoise.
My partner doesn't want to keep it really, though he says he'll support me whatever I want to do. He says he doesn't feel ready, that we have no savings/aren't financially ready for a baby, he commutes 1.5hrs each way for work every day and how would I manage?, also he wanted some time just him and I after we were married.
I feel torn, because I am the one who has to make the decision. He says he'll love the baby no matter what he he'll stand by me, but he wants me to really think about it and not just think with the emotional side of me.
I just do not know at all what to do. I'm so stuck. Please advise.