Went for my dating scan yesterday at 14+6 (yes, I'm always running late ) and dh and I both saw what looked like a very definite willy.
We didn't say anything but a fraction of a second later the sonographer (is that the right term?) said "If you thought you saw something between the legs, you didn't because the male and female genitals look the same at this stage"
All very well, but I have googled and some sources say you can tell at this gestation.
On the other hand she would have had no need to lie to us because we can find out the gender at the 20 week scan anyway if we want to. Which we don't btw, so no idea why I am obsessing over whether we saw a willy or not
Any experiences?