Early in my second pregnancy it was discovered that due to the hospital's fuck up giving me the wrong blood transfusion following an routine operation a few months earlier, I have certain antibodies in my blood for life...cheers for that.
When I was 4 months pregnant with my DS, I saw a blood specialist with my DH and we were told that though these antibodies might affect me if I need a further blood transfusion, they would not effect any baby we made together as we can not make an 'big E' baby (they had tested my DH's blood at my insistence) so the tilter levels were irrelevant and no further testing was required.
So I had no blood tests from 4 months on during my second pregnancy.
Now I am 6 months pregnant with DC3 and the midwife team have told me I need to be tested every 2 weeks for the next 20 weeks
Now I don't want to be because :-
: I believe the blood specialist and think if it was not needed in my last pregnancy it should not be needed in this one.
: I am terrified of hospitals and suffered panic attacks and three weeks of nightmares prior to my last hospital visit, I don't want to be feeling like that for the next 20 weeks.
: I no longer have any transport and would have to take two children on a minibus type bus, for 1.5 hours each way ride to the hospital. Struggle whilst heavily pregnant with two children on foot around the hospital and in the waiting rooms, as the minibus doesn't take prams.
:My veins are terrible. It took them several hours, numerous people over three different departments to get blood out of me for my last hospital blood test.
: Lastly if I do need the tests this time, why did they fail to test me 20 plus times in my second pregnancy
Sigh, I am just so sick of being the 'problem' person who won't jump through all their hoops. They don't seems to understand how upsetting and stressful I find hospitals. Of course I will go in for any necessary medical treatment/test but I don't want 9 unnecessary stressful upsetting hospitals visits. I suppose for them it is just another day in the office and they have no idea why I resist hospital visits.
I hate conflict, I struggle to deal with HCP as I am fairly paranoid about their motives. The midwife I have is a lovely lady and I know is only doing her job, I just want a straight answer.
Was the blood specialist right last time and if so there is no need to have blood tests this time around.
Hopefully they are checking my hospital records and will be able to check with the blood specialist and get back to me