34 weeks pregnant - any advice on sex?

[pinemartina]

Hi,I'm new here,so not sure if any other threads have covered this.I am 34 weeks with number 5.Sex was the last thought on my mind during previous 4,but this time -( diff.DP ,better relationship)I feel as up for it as ever.This is despite SPD,elephantine proportions and general decreptitude of age (42).This was easily celebrated until about wk 28,since when DP fears he will hurt the baby with penetration and also that it is not quite ok to be going for it with an obvious third party present.Plus I can hardly move,and I do spend most of my time wincing in agony anyway,just with the effort of moving,walking etc....I know the obvious solutions would be wait a few months and meanwhile sort myself out when horny...This could well be just a moan about the sacrifices of pregnancy and loss of identity stuff,but just wondered what anyone else would add?

LOL - also 34 weeks - and last time attempted it baby was kicking whole way through, complete put me off!

Your DP will not hurt the baby and the baby is not really aware, so if you feel up for it and can find comfortable position then go for it!

Just do it - tell DP he's only wetting the babys' head.

34 weeks here, too, with Number Two and also still up for it, though getting quite difficult logistically.... I actually just yell out to my DH 'it's time to come service your wife!' and make sure that I'm timing my request for early enough in the evening (after supper, but after DS in bed, obviously) that we're both not too knackered. He normally obliges pronto

(Mind you, almost backfired - last time I considered yelling that (and decided not to at last minute) he was on the phone to his boss...)