I am 8 weeks pregnant (not sure I am pregnant really), 1st day LMP 9/1/10 . 5th pregnancy, 1 miscarriage previously at 10 wks, 3 healthy kids. I am certain about dates and I have an extremely regular 28 day cycle.
Last week my tummy bloated up, up under the ribs to make the mummy tummy shape and I had 2 days of morning sickness from hell and then all symptoms vanished and I have not 'felt' pregnant for a week.
I went for a private scan a few days ago. It showed 2 gestational sacs. One was deflated and empty and the obstetrician said looked to be shrinking to be reabsorbed into the womb. The other was a good round shape but he could see nothing in it. He did external and internal scan. I think he tried to give me hope by saying I should go back in a week-10 days for another scan, it could just be that its a slow developer or that my dats are wrong or that I ovulated late in my cycle. But I have had 2 scans at 8 weeks before and both showed very definite foetuses, this scan showed a very empty scan, it was obvious even to me.
I feel fine but do not feel pregnant, no symptoms of miscarriage but then I had none last time either.
I feel very confused about what to do. I'm not sure I wanted another child, and 2 days of extreme morning sickness made me feel sure I didn't but then I go ga ga when I see babies, not something I used to do. Maybe its a body clock thing as I am 39 this year? My DH has been saying for about a year very definitely no more but then has recently been saying he didn't mean this and he is sad that this one looks not to be working out especially as it seems to have made my mind up that I shouldn't have any more.