I've started writing many responses to this message board and deleted them all again before pressing the send button. I'm expecting my first baby, but also work in the health profession and have seen more perinatal morbidity and mortality than I can describe.
Not wanting to scare anybody, but when you see babies or mothers die from conditions, and go home thinking- maybe if they hadn't refused this test, we could have intervened earlier- lets just say, reading some of the msgs on this board- its been difficult for me to contain myself.
I agree nobody can force you to have a test done- and there are plenty of women in countries where such tests are not offered and have healthy babies, but also many suffer sometimes fatal consequences.
You would be amazed at how many rare conditions are picked up with some of these tests- not just the more common Rh-ve's or the Down's Syndrome's, but also the anti-kell's anti-duffys, spina bifida, anencephaly, surgical problems like gastroschisis where deliveries need to be planned in a teirchary unit with paediaric surgeons on standby, heart defects that need immediate treatment.
As far as STI's are concerned- how can anybody be 100% sure they do not have one unless they are a virgin or have been tested? Seeing a babies coming to hospital with unusual illnesses that eventually turned out to be AIDS related was enough for me to agree to testing no matter how much I trusted my spouse. And the mothers of these babies were not sex workers or IV drug users (they were the ones less likely to decline testing)- they were nureses, headmistresses etc... women who were 150% sure they didn't have an STI.
I think my viewpoint is bias because i see too much of the abnormal and the tragedies. But there are enough bad things in this world that can happen beyond our control. The few things we can premempt, treat, monitor and minimise risk- I think should be welcomed.