Cheers Lucky can you tell I am obsessed with this? I know I am not as bad as some folks but it's really pissed me off to have it. I have put on far too much weight as I have been in the house and stuffing my face too.
I have another long winded post that I put up on another website, but didn't want anyone to fall asleep when reading it!! But hey, I am constantly on here surfing as I can't sleep so maybe someone will benefit from me boring them? I condensed this one down somewhat, but for what it's worth and why the hell not eh? here is one of my other rants (might be repeating myself here):
Hello, I'm 38 weeks at the moment and what you have described was exactly how my SPD started. If I can give you any advice, it's try not to do too much and rest rest rest. Waddling and losing the ability to walk properly is exactly as I would have described this when it started with me, and tbh my midwfie told me the pains/achiness/stiffness I was feeling in the pubic area were normal. I now know that this is incorrect, and due to that advice I still tried to go about my daily business as if nothing was wrong - big mistake.
See if your Dr can get you to a physio ASAP and they may be able to help you with some exercises and maybe an assessment of your pelvis. I ended up getting a support belt and crutches, BUT in all honesty the only thing that has helped me is doing nothing. I had to be signed off work since around 26weeks.
At first I thought it was better to do some walking as I felt so stiff and it did start to ease off after a few steps, however as time has gone on and in my case I feel that doing this has made me worse.
My physio said there was nothing that could be done until the birth and advised me to
- keep knees together
- do lots of pelvic floor ex
- Suck tummy muscles in before getting up/moving
- rest
- Have pillow between legs and lay on side in bed
I ended up seeing a chiropractor who assessed me and advised that my pelvis was out of alignment and that the support belt was probably contributing to letting my pubic bones at the front overlap and this is where the discomfort was occuring. He has been adjusting me and this has been the best source of comfort to remove a lot of the pain but I believe it may not resolve until after birth, however many women do seem to have issues after aswell. So I guess it's a wait and see and in the meantime go easy on yourself.
I also found that I cannot lay on my side as this is when my bones start to click in and out. not the best. I am certainly not as bad as some women on here, but I am at the stage now where a wheelchair would be great to let me get to the shops. My OH has been doing many many things for me, and it's hard to accept - but if it has to be this way then that's the way it has to be.
- Sit on a gym ball during the day (for a while), keeping legs together
- Put shoes on whilst on the gym ball - and pants and trousers too, it's lower than sitting on a chair
- Sleep in an upright sitting position with many many pillows
- Wear silky/satin jammies and stick some sort of slidy balnket underneath your bum for easy sliding
- When sliding out of bed try to sit up slowly and then put legs over the side and push with hands so that you are still in an upright position
- If you can/want to sleep on your side, place pillows in between your legs to take the pressure off your pubic bone. Be careful when rotating in bed, if you can try to get into a sitting position first.
- try a memory foam mattress topper to absorb the weight from your hips
- Take the stairs one at a time, placing one foot on, then the other
- Ice pack your pubic bone, or heat pack it, trial and error
10. be careful when you are in the bath/trying to get out, get someone to assist you
11. Squeeze your pelvic floor and abs when moving in bed, or sometimes arching your back can help to keep your pelvis stable
12. Don't do too much, I did aquanatel weeks ago and it was fine. Later on I couldn't walk
13. If you can afford it seek out a chiropractor or an osteopath
14. think about your birthing position, not on your back, not with legs wide open but maybe on all fours or on your knees
15. If you can drive, be careful of your position, if it's not comfy then don't do it. Don't brake hard, it hurts, and sometimes it hurts even more laters
16. Sit on a hard chair during the day, this offers support and keeps you straight
17. Don't give up hope xxxx
{waves and hugs to everyone]