At 43 your baseline risk of having a Downs syndrome pregnancy is 1 in 50 (or 1 in 69 depending on what stats you look at!)
This is what they start at before putting the other figures into the software that produces the combined result.
It sounds like your baby's nuchal fold is nice and thin and as others have said, a nasal bone is a good sign. This will be reducing your risk.
Therefore, aside from your age, what is likely to be making your odds higher is the blood test. At 12 weeks, they measure the Beta-HCG levels (basically how much pregnancy hormone you have in your blood) and PAPP-A. A high Beta-HCG and a low PAPP-A can be markers for Down's.
You may want to ask what your exact results were (they will both be quoted in terms of MoM which means "multiples of the mean" - so above 1 is higher than average and below 1 is lower than average).
You will likely be asked at your appointment if you want to go for CVS (though it might be too late for you? Not sure how far along you are) or an amnio. It's a personal choice and no one can force you to have either. You might want to have a think about what you would do if the results were positive - as if you wouldn't terminate for Down's then there is little point in having the diagnostic tests (save for the fact that at least you would know).
As for me, the NT was 1.7mm and I had both high Beta-HCG and low PAPP-A. I am 30 and decided to go for an amnio. Fortunately all was ok and I am now 32+5 with our baby boy. It was really stressful though at the time - the best tip I can give is to post on the "ante-natal results/choices" section of MN as there are some brilliant people there who know a lot about this.
Good luck.