hello,
had a scan yesterday at 28 weeks with DC3. Both DH and I had decided we didn't want to know the sex of baby as we plan this to be our last child. However, was just coo-ing over a lovely pair of feet showing in the scan when radiographer mw whipped upwards and said "Do we want to know the sex of this baby". I said no and she moved on but, and i appreciate this might be an urban myth (and by that i mean my sister and a couple of friends), my understanding was that radiographer generally only offered if she/he could clearly see a peepee. Does this hold?
Am a bit pissed off as really wanted the surprise at the end of labour and scan room has a big sign stating "please do not ask for the sex of your baby". Anywho, would love to know if this is an urban myth or generally holds true (if only to settle argument with DH also can now only think of boy's names)