Hi EmLouT
When I was pregnant with DS, his growth started to tail off at 32 weeks. And there were concerns that there may was IUGR. It is great that you are under consultant lead care. The things I would share from my experience are the following:
- I would push for more frequent scans (especially after 28 weeks), I was being scanned at least fortnightly
- I assume that in addition to the normal growth scans, they are also doing doppler scans?
- You are slightly too early in your pregnancy to be told to monitor your bubs daily movements, but from around the 28 week mark, you do need to start keeping an eye on frequency of movements
- Your consultant will most likely tell you to call in any episodes of reduced movements and you will be asked to go in for CTG traces to monitor movement. Without scaring you too much, if there is suspected IUGR, the earliest symptom that things are not all well with the baby is if the baby starts to move less. And reduced movement needs to be checked out straightaway. Pack a good book, because I was sometimes hooked up to the monitor for well over an hour.
- Have a hospital bag packed early and kept ready in the car. If one of the traces/ scans concern your consultant, they could admit you there and then, so be prepared.
- Be open to different birth methods. I was totally geared for a natural birth but combo of suspected IUGR with resolute breach baby meant I was advised to go for a csection. And I listened to them.
My consultant said that they were going to try to get me to 37 weeks so long as scans / movements did not cause alarm. I did get to 37 weeks (waters broke night before planned csection) and DS was born via csection weighing 5lb 1oz.
DS actually didnt have IUGR, came out kicking and screaming, very healthy and strong. Think DH and I just grow em small.
The only other part I would prepare you for(if you are keen to breastfeed) is if your LO comes out a little on the smaller side, you may be advised to start feeding formula immediately as opposed to waiting for your milk to come in.
DS was always put to my breast and managed to feed a little, but tired easily. I then expressed colustrum which was given to him, and he was then topped up with formula. I spent the first few days in floods of tears convinced that this would mean DS wouldnt be able to breastfeed.
I was wrong. My milk came in on day 3, and because DS had been feeding well- he had enough energy to latch on a start feeding for longer periods (topping up with bmilk). By the time I left the hospital on day 5, he was breastfeeding wonderfully with no top ups via bottle required. He didnt go into SCBU, or get Jaundice and lost none of his birth weight by discharge.
Sorry for the humongous post. I just know how scary this whole experience can be, and wanted to share all the stuff I had learnt when I went through it.
HTH and keep us updated as to how you get on.