Hi Clappedout - sorry it's taken all day to get back to you - I only just logged on!
It wasn't so much repercussions later in the pregnancy, more later on.
There were so many mixed up feelings for those weeks when we didn't know what was wrong with our baby. I confess to sometimes even wishing I would miscarry, because the decisions facing us if our child was confirmed with having Edwards were just to huge to face. I just wanted it all to go away at times.
Then, after we found out that all was fine, guilt that I might have harmed the baby by having the CVS at all - and worry that I might miscarry then, because of the test, even though our baby was fine.
Then, of course, huge, huge guilt that I'd even thought about not wanting her.
Then, after she was born I was determined to somehow 'make up for it all' by being the 'perfect' mum - which is the quickest way to drive yourself round the bend that was ever invented!
Now, I'm not at all saying that you'll go through any of this - tbh it is quite possible I was just a bit of headcase anyway, and the whole trauma of the experience just brought out the worst in me!
But I did go through a ling-ish bout of PND, beginning when my lovely daughter was about 4 months old. I had a lot of counselling at the time, and a lot of the issues around that difficult time in early pregnancy came up as triggers.
I was vaguely aware that I'd gone from being really quite intensely upset about it to "oh well, everythings fine, so it's all fine and like it never happened" without really addressing any of the feelings raised.
With hindsight I wish I'd taken the hospital up on the counselling that was offered at the time (I don't know if you have been or not - but you could ask), and worked through some of those feelings earlier.
But hindsight is 20:20, as they say, and at the time I just wanted to get on with being happily pregnant and forget all about it.
Now you're not me, and our situations and prognoses were different - so this may well all be irrelevant. But it might just be worth giving it a bit of thought - or just talking to your DP about it at least, and make sure you're OK with everything that's happened, that's all.
And maybe bear it in mind going forward?
I don't want to give you the eebie jeebies, or be a voice of doom and gloom or take away ANY of your joy at having a positive outcome, and hopefully a delightful pregnancy from here on it.
I just thought it was worth a mention, because I honestly wish someone had mentioned it to me...
Really hope his helps, and feel free to discount any or all of the above!!
Still VERY at your good news!
db
xx
p.s. DD is now 21 months, a complete joy and a delight, I have come out the other side of PND many months ago and am loving being a mum - so much so I'm doing it again! Happy endings any which way, just maybe a bit more of a winding path for some of us!