My very good friend is 38 and has been ttc since Nov. She has always wanted children but it wasn't on the cards with a previous partner. She now had a fab man and they are both very keen.
I know she's been finding it hard going and is fed up (though I also know it's still relatively early days).
The thing is we are seeing her and her man at the weekend - going to a show and for drinks and dinner. Normally, we'd all have a few drinks and make a real night of it but I've just found out I'm pregnant - though only 5 weeks. I thought about the antibiotics excuse for not drinking and all of that but she's very alert to these things and will suss it. She may also be more hurt that I'm feeling that I can't tell her.
I just don't know how to do this for the best. When I told her I was pregnant last time she was obviously upset though putting a good face on it and told me afterwards that she'd cried for days. She doesn't grudge me my happiness and is a great friend - I just feel bad that we can't seem to share this without reservations.
friend desperate for baby and I'm pregnant (again)
spub · 24/05/2005 09:44
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