I haven't spoken to a friend for absolutely ages, I feel really bad because I know she had her last round of IVF in April, and I have a horrible feeling it won't have worked, she has very serious fertility problems, no tubes and badly scarred uterus from endometriosis. She was told that basically her only chance is surrogacy.
I'm now pg, but that's not why I want to contact her, it's been too long and it'll be nice to catch up on the news.... Do I just not say anything until I know for sure what's happened. Presumably if she had IVF in April and it did work her 12 week scan won't be until sometime this month so perhaps she hasn't said anything because of that, but I don't want to ask her outright in case she's too upset by it all.
I can't decide what to do... email her and tell her all my news just leaving out the fact that I'm pg (naturally she'll find out eventually) or email her and tell her and do I ask her about the IVF?
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A perennial problem, how to tell a friend who's last round of IVF failed that I'm pg.
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HeadFairy · 12/07/2009 21:38
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