I'm sure this post is going to come off sounding slightly ungrateful and I'll be subject to much flaming....but I'm going to ask opinions anyway.
DH and his brother are twins. Their parents divorced when they were babies. Their mother has gone to great pains to ensure that they both get everything equal - split right down the middle to this day!! It's not really been so much of an issue with their dad - he's in their lives but doesn't really 'provide' for them in the same way IYSWIM. Their Dad bought the cot for brother's first born 2+ years ago. Lovely gesture. Now we're expecting our first in 5 weeks and not once has he ever mentioned/offered, etc to do anything for this LO. I'm not bothered really - no one is obligated to buy anything of course, but I think it's really kind of bothering DH. My parents have already offered to get the pram and his mother is getting the cot, so we're already quite spoiled, so I really don't wnat to sound ungrateful, but do you think it's at all weird that his dad would give one son's first born a major gift but not the other?
thanks for any input, I'm ready for your responses even if you tell me I'm a spoiled brat!