Hi everyone
I had my 12 weeks scan a few days ago and it went really well but it revealed identical twins. Although I?m really happy I?m very, very shocked and didn?t expect this. I?m now feeling a little bit panicky about how to cope. It's all I can think about. My husband is great and I know we actually can cope, we should also be OK financially but I have so many questions on how to handle two instead of one and how we can make our life easier or look after them better. For example I can?t see how I can logistically look after one without neglecting the other when feeding, changing, bathing etc. My husband can?t be around all the time and will be at work. I?ve been on the Tamba website and quite frankly it scared the hell out of me with all the things that could go wrong, so I wondered if anyone could give be some tips here on how to manage, what to expect, anything we should be buying etc.
Many thanks
Trudi