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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Could i be pregnant?

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NKe79952cX120d497e05d · 23/04/2009 21:11

Hello, i would just like to ask the advice of other parents/parents to be could i be pregnant..
I had sex with my ex partner on the 17th just past and my last period started on the 27th of March..
If i have a reagular cycle i would have had sex a week after i should have been most fertile..
My ex partner and i used no contraception at all foolish i know But silly mistakes happen. He didnt with draw before he ejacualted .. Does anybody know what the chances of me being pregnant are?
Really worried but it is too soon to do a test and it was too late to take the morning after pill by the time it dawned on me..

Thanks, Dee, xo

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tessofthedurbervilles · 23/04/2009 21:15

God knows love, tried to get pg for years when I thought I was fertile then did a silly thing when I thought I wasn't and am due any day...its not an exact science so its a waiting game I think.

dizietsma · 23/04/2009 21:21

There's no point tying yourself up in knots about it, wait until you period is due at the very least, and test.

To be absolutely sure I always make myself wait until at least a week after I'm due. That way there's no doubt it'd show up on a test. A lot of early tests are a bit uncertain, and lead to you spending lots more money of piles of tests 'cos you could swear you saw a faint line on the third one!

Do your best to put it out of your mind until you can test. Difficult, I know, but you can make yourself crazy with the "what ifs" and symptom spotting OCD.

Northernlurker · 23/04/2009 21:24

Oh dear - well as you already know - yes you could be - only time is going to tell.

I think you need to think about NOW though - why you had unprotected sex with your ex. What is going on with the two of you and if you were pregnant would that change anything - and if so is that something you should change anyway pregnant or not - iyswim. Yes silly mistakes happen - but ime because one person at least wants them to on some level. Get yourself sorted out now and then you can deal with the results of a pregnancy test - IF you have to take one.

NKe79952cX120d497e05d · 24/04/2009 00:04

Thanks, to first person, good luck with the new arrival! Hope everything goes aswell as possible.

Hopefully period should be on it's way. The more i stress the more i could knock it off track and that annoys me.
Yeah pregnancy tests are rather expensive, i've been here before.

It's the wait thats the hard part but, as i am quite young and have so much ahead of me im not ready for a baby, i've been through all this in my head, but i know if i do end up pregnant i can do it, difficult work but i'll have the support of my family if they need to know and i've a close friend she is pregnant at the minute also, 9 weeks gone.

The stress for me at the minute is with my ex fella, i've talked to him about it and he's scared as much as i am. But i don't know if he'd walk away or stick by me. We have a messed up realationship. That makes it so much harder. It's imature, one minute we'll be on and the next we'll be off. I know i deserve better than him, but i love him with all of me and more and its sad and hard for me. Im finding it hard to cope with the emotional stress that comes from us.

I think wether im pregnant or not what we have or had won't change much at all. We're to put it on a basic line .. Close friends really close and over the years i just happend to fall in love with him, but he didnt fall in love with me, im just there when he feels like i am. I want to walk away from that but i can't!

Also just while i've got my little essay on the go here, i have lower backpain and very faint watery ( sorry for the graphics) pink-ish spotting. I dont know if that would be a sign to my period coming as i always with out doubt get backpain with my period, i never get cramps or anything but i've had a few in my lower abdomen today, or if that could be implantation.

Well thank you for your advice guys

Dee, xo

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tessofthedurbervilles · 24/04/2009 10:57

you could try posting in the relationships section here....you might get more advice / support.
I would strongly recmnd NOT having any more unprotected sex with someone who your relationships is not stable with....having been there and done that I now have someone I don't get on with linked to me for the rest of my life.

shaquana · 02/05/2009 01:29

Im 14 and me and muh boyfriend have been having sex alot and he camed almost every last time we didnt use protection and now im sittin here wondering if i'm pregnant or not.. im havin a lot of symptoms of being pregnant but i dont know for sure if i am or aint.

Jaquelinehyde · 02/05/2009 01:33

Shaquana Not helpful but makes a point

Jaquelinehyde · 02/05/2009 01:33

Shaquana Not helpful but makes a point

NKe79952cX120d497e05d · 15/05/2009 02:45

Hmm! Well at fourteen i really hope for your sake you arent pregnant to be honest! You wont need the stress!!

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