Is there more ppl like me that doesn't feel like doing ANYTHING with their partner?????

[Tiaxx31]

Blimey i feel so tired or sick or being sick or in pain with the stretching feeling in the stomach and i feel really bad for my man as i don't think about doing anything at all, all those feelings have gone out the window but my poor man is feeling more active then ever, i think that is because he isn't getting it. I never felt like this around him, we always have a good loving/sexual relationship but it all went to pot when i found out i was pregnant. Why am i feeling like this, i don't want to do anything, poor man is suffering,lol. Does anyone else feel like this or am i just strange? lol

Many Thanks xx

I'm sure you're not the only one. We haven't done the deed for about 6 weeks now. I am just too knackered in the evening and feel too sick the rest of the time. Even the thought of it turns me off right now! I think it must be nature's way of saying 'too late, bun is in the oven!' From previous pregnancies I usually got the urge back at about 14 weeks. My DH claims he is coping and he is ok without it. But I do feel sorry for him!

Oh all the time, especially in the early days. I know it's not that I don't want it though, I'd just rather be a lazy arse and lay in bed with a book! Once it actually starts, I always enjoy it, which is why I never turn him down.

I figure once the baby is here, bedroom activity will somewhat limited, so we might as well enjoy it now

well I'm too knackered to anything at the moment. But he won't anyway in case 'he pokes its eye out' No one can convince him otherwise. Was the same for last pregnancy. Its me who suffers!

@ poking it's eye out. Maybe a gentle pat on the shoulder and a "Dear, it's not that big" will help him see sense!

We have had sex about 4 times I'm 29 weeks PG and just do not feel like it. But we are now sleeping seperate too as I'm so uncomfortable. Can't even rememebr the last time we had a proper snog. Neither of us a that bothered and we are excited for our normal sex life to return as it will be like when we first met again. We still cuddle and peck and hold hands etc.

My DP has been a complete w*er throughout my pregnancy but it hasn't stopped me sleeping with him (I am hormonal and constantly gagging! ) I just don't want to talk to him / see him at any other time!

Dont worry about ur man at the moment, pregnancy is all about you, if u want to be lazy be lazy ha! im 26 weeks pregnant and sometimes i just feel to0 tired to make an effort with my man!! everything will be back to normal when the little one is born, oops except for the sleepless nights!!

I feel exactly like this - no drive at all and he is rampant!! We always had a good relationship physically so think he is finding it hard but I cant stop being sick and my tummy hurts so its not really making me super up for it if you know what i mean.

You guys may want to think yourselves lucky!!

My sex drive has always been rubbish - UNTIL I became PG!! So we've done it quite a lot during PG but I'm sure that after our little one is born (currently 33 weeks PG), my sex drive will plumit again - you may want to feel sorry for my DH!!

So, if anyone has any suggestions for how to keep a normally low sex drive, high after a baby - PLEEEEEASE tell me!!

Good luck all with your LOs.

xxx

I'm the same we have done "it" twice in all 30 weeks!!!! I wanted to wait til 12weeks, after scan and then we did it again a short while ago but I have SPD and the thought of " down there" being touched sends a shiver down my spine but not with excitement!! DH is being fab but hes finding me a real turn on and is a tad frustrated!!! But I' sure once the wine can flow again, things will be fine!!!
Good luck to you all xx