Ladies,
Thank you so much, this has given me a lot of food for thought...
So, on the pain-relief side, part of my problem is that I suffer with something called "Emetophobia" which is a phobia of vomiting. Now I've heard (terrifying) rumours already that vomiting in labour sometimes happens but as my phobia is so severe, I need to speak to my MW about it and ensure that some medication is provided to help.
Because of my phobia, I don't want Gas & Air or Pethidine as I've heard that both can make you feel sick.
I know this must sound really bizarre and so many people have said "Vomiting will be the last worry on your mind at the time...", but really, with a phobia as severe as mine, being sick may well cause me to pass-out.
I haven't vomited now for nearly 10 years and didn't suffer any MS (luckily...), but I think that has just intensified the fear.
So, maybe I will be Ok to stick with trying the TENS machine first...
I have to admit I'm more than a little freaked out by all of this now and am wondering whether, if they suggest an induction, I can request an elective c-section instead. I know that c-sections are major surgery and I'm not taking the decision lightly, but I wonder if that would be best for me under the circumstances.
Of course, all this could end up not being as big an issue as our little girl is currently breech anyway and doesn't seem to have any intention of turning, although there is still some time to go.
Thank you again for all your support!!
xxx