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Right need to make a hospital bag and home birth bag, please help!

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chocolatebunnies · 25/03/2009 16:00

Hello,

Need some help from all you experienced
ladies out there.

I am 32 weeks with 2nd (can't remember anything from 1st time round!)

I am planning a homebirth this time, and need to prepare everything I may need, also need a hospital bag ready just in case, I have no idea where to start and am rubbish at this sort of thing, I need somone to tell me exactly what I need for both!

Any tips / advice would be much appreciated!

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chocolatebunnies · 25/03/2009 17:23

somebody must be able to help me!

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loganberry12 · 25/03/2009 18:01

What to pack for you during labour
?1 x birth plan - This is something you shouldn't be without. Make sure that you and your partner are happy with its contents before the big day.

?1 x old t-shirt - Things can get quite messy during labour so an old but comfortable nightdress or baggy t-shirt is ideal.

?1 x dressing gown - Especially useful if you're planning an active labour.

?1 x pair of slippers - For when you're moving around on a cold hospital floor.

?1 x pair of socks - Just in case your feet get cold.

?1 x bottle of massage oil - To help your partner massage your back during labour.

?1 x TENS machine - Not all hospitals provide this form of pain relief so make sure you have one packed if it's something you'd like to use.

?Books & magazines - Labour can be a long process and you're likely to experience some 'down time' so take something to keep you entertained.

?1 x portable stereo - Music can help you to feel relaxed so a portable stereo (try to find one that's battery operated) loaded with your favourite music can be really useful.

?Toiletries - Anything that will help you to feel more comfortable - deodorant, lip balm, face wipes, moisturiser, tissues and a water spray are all good to include.

What to pack for your partner
?1 x watch - This is for timing contractions so make sure it has a second hand.

?1 x change of clothes - Comfortable shoes, a clean t-shirt and a jumper are all useful to have. Make sure you pack a pair of swimming trunks for your partner to wear if you're planning a water birth.

?1 x camera - To record the special moments after your baby's birth.

?Snacks - Food and drink for you both is a must to help keep your energy up (and stop you having to put up with hospital food!).

?Change - A hospital must-have for car parks and phone calls.

?Contact numbers - A 'call sheet' can be useful to make sure you share your happy news with everyone that needs to know.
What to pack for you after the birth
?2 x open fronted nightdresses - A nightie will be most comfortable after delivery and will be ideal for breastfeeding.

?1 x going home outfit - Something loose and comfortable like a tracksuit will be best. It's unlikely you'll fit into your pre-pregnancy clothes right away as it will take a while for your tummy to go down so make sure you take something you know will fit.

?2 x nursing bras - Choose well fitting, soft cotton varieties that have 'easy access' drop cups while you get the hang of things.

?1 x pack breast pads - An essential for when your milk comes in.

?2 x packs maternity pads - Disposable maternity pants are also available.

?3 x pairs old pants - Things can be quite messy after the birth so bring old but comfortable or disposable maternity pants to wear.

?Toiletries - Whatever you feel you'll need to make you feel human again - a hand mirror can also be useful.

?1 x towel - A bath towel is the best size to include.

?1 x pair ear plugs - You may end up on a noisy ward!

What to pack for baby
?1 x infant car seat - It can be a good idea to fit this in your car as your due date approaches so that it's all set up correctly for your baby's journey home, giving you one less thing to think about.

?3 x babygroes - 'Newborn' sized sleepsuits will be best for the first few weeks.

?3 x vests - Choose a cotton variety with an envelope neck and poppers underneath.

?1 x going home outfit - You'll need something warm for baby to wear on their first outing.

?1 x hat, mittens & booties - To keep your baby snuggly both inside the hospital and out.

?3 x muslin squares - Essential for feeding and mopping up dribbles.

?1 x pack nappies - Either reusable or disposable depending on your preference.

?1 x pack nappy sacks - Odour neutralising varieties are usually best.

?1 x pack cotton wool - A must have for those first nappy changes.

?1 x baby blanket - If baby is due in winter make sure this is extra warm.

chocolatebunnies · 25/03/2009 19:34

anymore advice anyone??

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ILikeToMoveItMoveIt · 25/03/2009 19:38

You can have one bag that serves as your post natal bag, wherever the birth happens to be. I don't think there's a need for two.

I think Loganberry's list is v comprehensive tbh.

Good luck

BeehiveBaby · 25/03/2009 19:39

I packed one bag, easy for DH to find things even if at home as planned.

chocolatebunnies · 26/03/2009 11:31

will i need anything specific for homebirth??

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ToastnHoney · 26/03/2009 12:40

Check the list here for homebirth: www.homebirth.org.uk/list.htm

CaptainKarvol · 26/03/2009 12:55

I had quite a disorganized homebirth (happened a couple of weeks earlier than I was expecting) and had to hand...

Sanitary pads to soak up my steadily leaking waters
1 big baggy tshirt to wear in labour
1 dressing gown, ditto (was the middle of the night, and chilly)
loads of towels
nappy and sleepsuit for new baby
moses basket and blanket for new baby
loads of muslin cloths, also for new baby
a birth pool standing on a big tarp in the living room
a laptop, internet on and the contraction master website showing
a TENS machine
the 'homebirth kit' dropped off by the midwives, which included lots of inco-pads which were very useful for sitting on afterwards while being stitched!

I didn't need and didn't miss any of the massage oil, soft music stuff - not my thing!

Extras for hospital - toothbrush, face cloth, spare clothes, nappies, cotton wool, maternity pads, comfy pillow/feeding pillow of your own, earplugs, change for the phone.

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