My friend suffers from Ulcerative Colitis and has done since she was in her teens. About 4 years ago she had an operation on her bowel which left a large scar from under her rib cage down to her belly button. She is dying to try for a baby but is terrified of how these things would affect her pregnancy. She is now getting depressed as she does not think she will ever be able to carry a child as it may put pressure on her already painful bowel and also the scar may rupture.
I would love to tell her something positive but I have no experience of either of these things. I keep telling her to speak to the specialist about it but she still hasn't and I think this is because she is scared of what they will say. Unfortunately the longer this goes on the further into depression she is going to go.
Anyone have any experience with either of these or both??