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waterbirth anyone??

22 replies

mum2b09 · 04/02/2009 19:04

been really considering having a water birth (in hospital) obviously i i can have one depending on circumstances but am still a little aprehensive...

anyone had waterbirths and what are your opinions??

oh and one little question haha i know some women poo (sorry for the choice words) whilst in labour what happens if you go in the pool how embarrasing haah!! xxxxxxxxxxx

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choufleur · 04/02/2009 19:06

go for it. they're brilliant.

you'll get loads of responses i'm sure.

didn't take pain away but made everything so much more bearable IMO.

midwives have a sieve type thing to get rid of poo quickly if you go.

good luck

kookykid · 04/02/2009 19:17

Waterbirth was fantastic for me! Eased my contractions so much I didn't need any other pain relief and DD barely cried as she came to the surface and I was able to hold her to me straight away. Wonderful way for her to enter the world.

As for poos - much easier to whip them out ot the pool with a sieve than clear them off a bed/the floor!!

BikeRunSki · 04/02/2009 19:49

I really wanted one, was all up for it... DS had other plans, v quick labour, 2 weeks early, undiagnosed footling breech and em CS! I laboured in the bath at home though before it all went Pete Tong. Go for it, and I hope you get one!

hkz · 04/02/2009 20:01

Had a brilliant waterbirth at home two weeks ago. Really positive experience and very different from my previous hospital birth. Water really helped me to focus and cope with the pain.

DP bought a giant sieve to fish out poos...he didn't have to use it though. (or so he tells me..)

missytabitha · 04/02/2009 20:28

I loved my waterbirth and can't recommend it enough. I had to get out for a bit at one point as my temp went up and I hated being out of the water! It gives you your own space and boundaries plus is really relaxing which in my case I believe speeded up the actual labour (6 hours from arrival at hospital to delivery). The sieve/poo thing happened but was so discretely managed I just laughed! If you can actually deliver in the water too so lovely. The sight of my DS1 'swimming' up to meet me is probably the best moment of my life. I am due in 6 weeks and hoping and praying the pool where I am to deliver will be free. Good luck with it all.

philopastry · 04/02/2009 20:41

I had waterbirths both times and would highly recommend. What is really good about having one in hospital is that they look after your really well - I never got left without a midwife/ student midwife for a moment once i got in that pool. i think it is a health and safety things with the hospitals but the level of care you get is definitely one of the less often spoken about advantages of waterbirths. Having said that would echo all the other reasons re pain relief etc. I was upright (on my knees in the water, hanging upper body over edge of bath) for my first one and this does feel a lot less exposed too. I appreciated that as a first timer.
If you are seriously considering it, then I would check with your hospital whether you need to attend a water birth prep class or anything beforehand - this was a condition of having one at the hospital I was in.
Also I would make sure it is in your written birth plan near the top in big letters and make sure your birthing partner knows what you want so it doesn't get overlooked in the excitement of it all. Good luck!

philopastry · 04/02/2009 20:42

I am not sure if excitement of it all is the right phrase - you know what I mean!

Woby · 04/02/2009 20:51

I'd highly recommend a water birth if it's possible. I had one with DS and it gave fantastic pain relief. At one point I had to get out of the pool and it was really really painful, and getting back in the water was a huge relief. Didn't need any other pain relief but I think this would have been different had I not had a water birth. Good luck.

ellenjames · 04/02/2009 20:58

this might sound really stupid but can u have gas and air in hospital waterbirth?

LaaDeDa · 04/02/2009 21:00

I had a waterbirth with my 2nd baby.
I spent a long time in the bath when i was in labour with my first cos i'd been transfered to a hospital without a birth pool and found that very good for pain relief.

Second time around i was able to stay at the hospital with the pool and my baby was born still entirely in the sac (my waters never broke) and floated up to meet me. It is very strange when you see their little face under the water and you still have to push the rest of them out! My (now ex) dp was starting to panic at that bit! As long as the water is the right temp and you don't touch them they don't breathe until they are completely delivered and scooped out!
It was lovely for pain relief and better than the bath because you can move around to find the position you feel most comfy in and you obviously don't have to get out to deliver! Plus you can still have gas and air if you want!
Pooing will also be the last of your worries!

philopastry · 04/02/2009 21:18

ellenjames - I had loads of gas and air both times - it is quite good stuff

notnowbernard · 04/02/2009 21:20

I've had 2

Both really positive experiences

Yes, you do poo

That's what the colander is for

Qally · 05/02/2009 01:11

Oh God, it was amazing. I was in a fair bit of pain when I got to hospital (3 days latent labour before waters broke - some contractions were full on and lasted minutes, so I got almost no sleep, but they just never got regular) but as soon as I got into the water and relaxed, the pain went. It was a miracle. I could still feel the clenching up when I contracted, but it was painless. After an hour or so it started to really hurt again, so I took gas and air and that more or less killed it till the end. I abused the g & a - breathed it constantly - but even crowning didn't hurt much. I was so stoned that I have no idea if I did a poo or not, but DH says no. (Waters broke when I was doing a big one at home, so maybe I was, um, cleared out, so to speak). Frankly though al I wanted was everyone to sit down, shut up and let me concentrate on labouring, which they did. I never even needed an internal exam, and it was my first birth.

They had a change of shift and the new mw was alarmed by how hot the water was and tried to get me out - I absolutely refused, and they just poured lots of cold in instead for the pushing stage. I gave birth leaning forwards, up against the bath. I remember this absolute certainty that the weight of my body would cause such pain if I got out, but in water it was fine. It was honestly never unbearably painful at any stage at all, and I am a wimp with pain - I take painkillers for leg waxes.

Hospitals often have much nicer pools than home ones. Mine was like a bath made for a giant - I could float, be completely submerged, and lean up against the back in total comfort. The bath at home didn't even cover my belly by the end of pregnancy, and didn't help labour pains, and an inflatable wouldn't have been as comfy to lean on.

I'd take a bag of ready-made ice or two along from a shop (not home-made, as industrially frozen lasts longer) in an Eskie, and get your birthing partner to hand you some in a cup between contractions, to cool you, if a hotter bath helps the pain. (I was spitting the ice out as contractions hit so I could suck on the g & a again, then just holding a hand out as soon as it ended, eyes closed, for more ice - my DH has never offered such attentive service!) Baths can get too hot and uncomfy for me after a while, ice kept me comfortable, and maintained my body temp. at a good level while also hydrating me. I'd have had to get out otherwise, I think, the mw told me a lot of women do.

My only anxiety about a second birth is if both pools are in use. A pool, and I know I can do it.

Nekabu · 05/02/2009 08:54

I'm really keen on using the birthing pool too. I mentioned it to my midwife and she said they didn't make a note or anything so I'll say when I go in for my next scan as well.

sammysam · 05/02/2009 09:04

Watching this thread-really wanted one with dd but they were both full....hopefully I will next time [fingers crossed]

mum2b09 · 05/02/2009 14:18

Thanx girls! i think im convinced i want 1 now, obv i know u cant always have what you want but fingers crossed i will :D i havent heard any bad waterbirth stories as of yet so hopefully if i get one mine will go as well as yours. woo 5 weeks and counting xxxxxxxxxxx

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Astarte · 05/02/2009 14:39

the only risk you face with a hospital wb is that there might be someone else in the pool when you get there.

The only way to guarantee it is to hire/buy a pool and have a home wb, which is what I have done twice and am planning to do for this one, due in 5 days.

The care and attention is actually better for a home wb because you have 2 m/w's attending you at all times. You can also use the pool at home for relief from the weight of the pg towards the end, which is not to be underestimated imho. Those moments spent floating weightless at 37 weeks onwards when you feel the size of a whale are treasured

G&A is allowed. Pethidine is not.

shelsco · 10/02/2009 19:44

I had 2 awful hospital births, lying flat on my back where I felt really out of control and couldn't control the pain even with diamorphine. Took over an hour and a half from being fully dilated to delivering both times. Third time had a water birth. was great. no pain relief other than gas and air and only took half an hour from getting in (not fully dilated) til having baby. I'm convinced gravity played a major part. i wanted to stand up the other times but couldn't find a position where i could balance and control the pain.Because the water supports you, not a problem in the pool. Definitely go for it!

MadMazza · 10/02/2009 19:52

I used a birthing pool in an NHS hospital but I had to get out to actually deliver because my allocated midwife had not trained to deliver in water. I don't know if this is common. THe pool still helped for pain relief though and I gave birth in 3 hrs from arriving at hospital (and I used gas and air).

Mirry71 · 11/02/2009 11:04

Am keen on a waterbirth myself....can I just ask what did you wear? Or were you starkers?

mum2b09 · 11/02/2009 11:06

haha iv asked a few people that and they all said they went in starkers. i think you can wear a tankini thing or a bikini top but nothing underneath obv lol might as well do a full strip off if ur guna b half naked anyway lol xxxx

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dinkystinky · 11/02/2009 18:52

Had a water birth last night for DS2 - wasnt planning on one but a pool room was free when we got there and was insistent I wanted to get in it. Gave birth twenty minutes after getting in the pool on hands and knees (was in there starkers and baby was then passed to me to cuddle. Didnt remove the pain but did ground me beautiully through transition.

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