Sorry for not posting earlier... its all good news!
Had the scan on 23rd and was as nervous as hell. My heart was pounding as the cardioligist explained what she would be looking for. Baby was behaving and in an excellent position and before we knew it she turned and said "everything is normal!"
After completing the anomaly scan (with a nuchal measurment of 5mm which is average for a 20 week baby) she told us that if this was the first time we had been scanned she would not suspect any problems! Everything looks normal, baby is a good size and together with the results from the CVS our chances of a normal healthy baby are massively increased.
Its hard to believe that we went through so much, although we still have an increased risk of some rare syndrome at birth, but nothing like the first indicators at the 11 week nuchal. The cardiologist then said "I give you permission to continue with a normal pregnancy and put all of this behind you!"
So we've had an amazing Christmas and New Year. I'm getting nicely fat and I'm now loving being pregnant. With every kick and wriggle, I place my hand on my tummy and smile! Last night my husband whispered with a tear in his eye "We're lucky aren't we". And we definitely are...
Good luck to all of you out there that might be going through what we went through, it's really tough but try to stay strong as sometimes the odds are just on your side.
Thanks for everyone's support, and for anyone who is thinking whether or not to go through with a nuchal scan, then my advice would still be yes. It's only an indicator of a potential problem, and it can be hard to remember that, but following all the extra scans and tests we know more about this little one than most, and it just brings you closer to your baby.
Good luck with all your pregnancies!
lol Rhea xxx