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Being induced on Wednesday - if nothing has happened - experiences please!

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LoveActually · 18/01/2009 16:44

Was supposed to be having a sweep yesterday, due to midwife 'mixup' didn't happen. Ended up calling hospital because basically my last check up was nearly two weeks ago (now 41 weeks).
Anyway baby is fine, I am fine etc. Offered me a sweep but advice was to book in for an induction anyway. So I did.
Am wondering if there are any stats on induction, I know it can go wrong and that contractions can be more painful. Any advice gratefully recieved.
xx

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ready2pop · 20/01/2009 10:56

Oh - I must be odd. I was induced at 38 weeks because my placenta wasn't working. They gave me one pessary at bed time. I went to sleep and woke up with what I thought felt like indigestion the next morning apparently it was contractions. They broke my waters and DS arrived within the hour. So from the first twinge to him arriving was less than 90 minutes! So quick there was not time for any pain relief.

Very intense as it was so quick and like LeninGrad said the contractions after the waters broke were so strong I couldn't even speak. DH says from looking at the monitor they had on me that there were no breaks between the contractions at all - just merging into one another. Looking back though I'd rather that than a long drawn out labour.

I'm very worried about how quick it might be second time around though. Going to see if I can get them to induce me a bit early again as otherwise I might end up giving birth on the kitchen floor!

LoveActually · 20/01/2009 11:06

Have shown this thread to DP, so he knows what to expect too.
Going to make sure he doesn't leave my side, just in case it doesn't happen quickly. Am also considereing epidural; I had closed my mind to that before - now I'm more open minded.
Am thinking of the gas and air option ladyhelen mentioned.
I have no idea what my toleration of pain is, as I've never had a major op or accident. Last night though I had the worst pain of my life, but it was in my left hip and only lasted a second.
Don't know if my running/exercise training will help me. I've done several six hour aerobathons but I know nothing will prepare me for this.
Am so glad I asked everyone though as it has really helped empower me and DP. Am still hoping baby comes today!!!

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cheerfulvicky · 20/01/2009 12:13

Hi LoveActually,
Good idea getting your DP to read the thread! I was induced for my first child last August, I'll try and keep it brief but this might be a bit of a book...

I had pre eclampsia, and was also quite overdue, by hospital standards anyway: 8 or 9 days I think. I was admitted on the Tuesday evening and given a prostin pessary. Here they only give you one, and you keep it in for 24 hours I think and then if nothing happening then they put you on the drip. After a sleepless night and long days wait, nothing had changed. My body was pretty closed and didn't seem to want to give birth. I was also very tired after a sleepless night, so they offered me the chance to have a sleep overnight in a private room, DP could stay too. Then Thursday morning we would proceed with induction. I agreed, I was shattered. Though later I wondered why I couldn't just do all that waiting around at home...
We spent hours waiting to go up to delivery suite the first time, then had a room and a bit of a sleep. Thursday morning they said delivery was 'heaving' so we hung around til lunchtime. Just as I was having lunch the midwife appeared to collect me.

The drip went in about 2pm I think, and it didn't seem to work well as I'd had the canuala thing in my hand since the previous night. (It was quite painful and irritating). I kept forgetting to bend my hand and allow the syntocinon to flow. I seemed to be coping 'really well' according to MW, who kept turning the drip up and up til it was on max. About 3pm I started to feel contractions, and by 4pm they were getting quite intense. By 5pm they were coming back to back with no break between them, very strong and intense. I kept my eyes closed all the time, and didn't want to be talked to or touched. When there were still breaks in between them, I would think "Oh god here's another, help I need an epidural!' and it would fade and I'd be fine. But once there was no break, I asked for an epidural. MW told me they were in theatre and I'd have to wait. I was glad I asked for it as soon as I began to lose the plot, because by the time I got it at about 7, 7.30, I was feeling like I'd have to throw myself out the window if he didn't arrive soon. MW said I needed at last 10 mins of good monitoring before I could have it. I had been moving about on all fours on the bed trying to rock and monitors had detrached a bit, so they wanted to make sure the baby was ok.

Midwife 'stretched me to 3cm' and broke my waters before the epidural, which was bloody horrible. When I had the epi I got really dizzy and the babys heart rate dropped. MW pressed the buzzer and the room was full of consultants. I explained I was just really hungry and faint, as I hadn't eaten for a while; they won't let you have anything but plain water once the drip goes in. Consultant laughed and said they should 'make me a big sandwich' of course they didn't. Bah.

The epi was bloody fantastic, but I had a really good anesthetist. He was great. DS didn't cope well with the epi and his heart rate was dropping, so when I was finally fully dilated at 4.30am on Friday morning, the rushed me into theatre and delivered him with vontuse. Had to sign a form ok-ing a c section if the vontouse or forceps didn't work. The cord was around his neck twice I think. They thought he coped badly with the drop in my blood pressure, because he had been so used to me having high BP as a resulte of pre eclampsia.

He was great though, they whisked him away but soon brought him back, and I held him while they stitched me; had to have episiotomy because of vontouse.

Bad bits: The antenatal and postnatal wards (not restful!). I would prefer to avoid induction next time, because of the waiting around, and the stupid drip and monitor restricting my movement. If I had to be induced again because of medical concerns, I would have an epidural. Then at least you can get some sleep, which you might need after all the waiting about in noisy wards!

Good bits: He's sitting on my lap right now, playing with his cuddy giraffe . Also the myths about hospital food are wrong, its wonderful!

Good luck, I hope everything goes well, however you have your baby

LeninGrad · 20/01/2009 12:13

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HensMum · 20/01/2009 12:27

Excellent plan to get your DP to read this. Mine was brilliant throughout the whole process - except when I threw up and he basically chucked a bowl at me and ran out of the room - he's not great with vomit!
But he was really good at chasing up midwives and asking questions. They kept saying they'd monitor me for 20mins and then left me for an hour so he'd go and get someone to check on me.
I think it was very traumatic for him. We were talking afterwards and he said quite seriously "I don't think I could go through all that again". I felt like hitting him at the time but I know what he meant, it must have been awful for him to see me in so much pain and distress and to worry about DS too. It was just totally not what we'd planned - we wanted a relaxed water birth!

All the best LA! Whatever happens, you'll be meeting your baby soon. Keep focussed on that.

ladyhelen2 · 20/01/2009 19:45

loveactually just wondering how you are? ANy progress or is tomorrow D day? Hope all goes well. Look forward to getting an update soon.

LoveActually · 21/01/2009 09:16

Hi everyone,
Have to ring hospital at 10am this morning, then we go in.
Woke up at 2am this morning in tears, suddenly felt very scared generally and very scared of the pain! Convinced myself I and baby were going to die, DP woke up and gave me a cuddle which is all I needed really. Made myself a tea with lots of sugar and read for a bit, managed to get back to sleep. This morning I am feeling okay, just a bit disappointed things haven't gone as naturally as I wanted. Also felt a bit disappointed with community midwife service which has made me feel all bereft at a time when I am really feeling emotional.
Will let you all know when baby arrives! Thanks for all your posts they really have helped. xxxx

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LeninGrad · 21/01/2009 09:40

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PlumBumMum · 21/01/2009 09:50

Just seen your post, hope this isn't too late but I had 2 inductions 1st just needed ARM and oxytocin
2nd gel but no oxy
both babies born that day
1st in 5 hours actually
so its not all bad
Good Luck hope it goes well after dissappointment with midwives!

LoveActually · 22/01/2009 17:41

Hi guys.was given pessary at 11am this morning. Got cramps but they gave me a new slow releasing kind which can take 24 hours to get going. No need for gas and air but if it comes to the drip or gel will prob ask for epi. Only because I haven't had that much sleep and I know my pain threshold will be low! X

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MoooCow · 22/01/2009 19:19

Good luck LA!!
I had 2 inductions, one at 40+10, the next at 40+14, both where fairly speedy, prostin at 6pm, bath because of light but bearable contractions at midnightish, the bath really speeded things up with both, in full on labour 6cm by 2-3am, 1st baby out with the help of vontouse at 5.10, next baby out naturally at 4.40. G an A and pethadine with both. Hope it goes well for you x

PlumBumMum · 22/01/2009 19:19

You'll be surprised just keep reminding yourself of that yummy baby at end
good luck
Keep posted on arrival

ladyhelen2 · 24/01/2009 09:56

I keep checking in Loveactually to see if any news. How are you?

nappyaddict · 25/01/2009 13:24

oooh wonder if it's here yet.

plusonemore · 25/01/2009 13:34

mine was great with ds2,much better than the 18hrs with ds1. basically 9am, gel, contractions pretty much straight away, went for walk, had fry up, read sunday papers!! getting painful 2.45, they broke waters, had him 6.45. epidural at about 5pm. lovely, and no lost sleep!

good luck

chloejessmeg · 25/01/2009 13:49

any news?

LoveActually · 25/01/2009 16:18

Baby imogen born on friday by c section all OK but still in hospital will update you all tomorrow was tough but worth it

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LoveActually · 25/01/2009 16:25

By the way reason she was overdue is because her poor little head was stuck! So ended up with cs. X

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Nellycake · 25/01/2009 16:45

Congratulations!

Hope you recover soon

ladyhelen2 · 25/01/2009 16:49

Congratulations loveactually. Glad you both ok.
Rest up now! Thats an order.

PlumBumMum · 25/01/2009 16:54

Congratulations
love name

diddle · 27/01/2009 00:33

can't wait for more details. congrats and well done

LoveActually · 29/01/2009 13:01

Hello all! This is the first day I've had the chance to come on MN! It was quite an eventful labour, good and bad reasons!!!!
Bascially admitted to hospital Wed afternoon (week ago) they couldn't induce me straight away as baby's heartbeat was on the fast side. By the time she'd calmed down it (around 9pm) they didn't want to start anything as the delivery unit was busy. So thursday morning 10am I had the pessary prostin inserted. It looks a bit like a tampon (in that they can whip it out quick in case contractions start too soon). Mine started at 9pm (11 hours later) and boy were they strong!!! It was six hours before I dilated enough for the delivery unit to admit me for pain relief (plus they were too busy). by the way gas and air just did not cut it in the end for me, they were just overwhelming contractions which came every five minutes. I was shouting the ante natal ward down! Finally at 4am (or around then) I was admitted to delivery unit. Unfortunately epidural went in too far (1 in 300 chance) so the anathetist had to be called every hour to give me pain relief (midwife not allowed). This meant every 45 minutes was in major pain. By 1pm I was told to push. but two hours and a lot of pushing later I was admitted to the delivery theatre, and after attempts at ventouse then forceps, my beautiful daughter Imogen was born by emergency C Section at 3.48pm. Had to stay in hospital till yesterday, as they had to mend the spinal fluid leak (had huge headaches and couldn't sit up - which is not good when breastfeeding).
Anyway it just goes to show however well prepared you are, babies do their ownn thing. Mine was 'stargazing' i.e. stuck in my pelvis. But she's here now and I'd do it 10 times again!!!

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PlumBumMum · 29/01/2009 13:19

OMG you went through the mill abit

Glad you sound happy though and said it already love the name, beautiful, enjoy

LoveActually · 29/01/2009 13:56

I think I did have a bit of a time! Also (afterwards) hospital forgot to let my community midwife know I'd given birth and didn't give me pain relief. So we had to track down a midwife and a GP yesterday. Not great with a six day old. but even so, I would still do it again!!! xx

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