subchroniac haematoma! any advice or kind words?

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i am 10w3d pregnant, i woke up this morning feeling constipated and felt like i was going to miscarry, the pain is subsiding now but i am so nervous as had two previous miscarriages, i feel like at some point everyday i am in pain and feel like im a time bomb waiting for something to go wrong, both my other pregnancies were lost at around twelve weeks. i am feeling low but dont want to get down and stressed. i want to remain positive but have just been told i have a sub haematoma measuring 7/5/3 cms, it hasnt caused any bleeding well bar one time, but i just seem to have a lot of pain which is period like everyday, can anyone give me some hope, id be so greatful, thankyou x x x x

I can't imagine what you are going through so no advice but kind words aplenty Get into bed, get your DP to bring you magazines and tea, then stay there and try to rest and relax. I will say a little prayer for you and your baby (hope that doesn't offend)

no it doesnt offend, my partner has left so on my own staying with mum! just hoping and praying myself! ive been told its less than ten percent chance of miscarriage but im still terrified, thanku for ur kind message x

Bumping in case anyone has experience of this.

I had this with ds2. It was detected at 7 weeks and was gone by 12 weeks. I never saw any b1ood, and was told that in most cases this doesn't affect the pregnancy and corrects itself. The advice I was given was to basically "baby my baby's house". I got off my feet as much as possible, avoided sex, and any odd lifting.

HTH