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Boyfriend and I split found out 2 days later i am 5 weeks pregnant..!

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realtai · 08/01/2009 00:27

I know that this is quite a wierd situation...But i'l go on..I was seeing him for 1yr and half or so and we had being trying for a while with no luck.We were in a serious relationship and often talked about future plans..New years eve,we both had a few to drink in his brothers house with his brother and his brothers wife who is/was a good friend of mine.We had one too mamy and ended up in a massive row.We went upstairs so as not to fight in front of his family and he said some really nasty things to me so i said i was going home,When i picked up my mobile he threw me onto the bed pinned me down with my arms above my head and when i screamed at him to get off me, he blocked my nose and mouth and then put his fist up to my face.I was terrified and roaring and crying.His sister in law came into the room and he left the room.She comforted a distraught me and asked what happened and added "she came in bcause her husband(his brother)thought i was being raped.So I broke things off with him and sais to him there is absolutely no way I could be with him after that as I couldn't stay with anyone who had scared me like that..Then 2nd of Jan took a test as I was late and of course I am 5 weeks pregnant.Although I am happy with the pregnancy and know I will be a good mother..I dont know what to do about him.I rang him the night i found out to tell him he was going to be a father and he didnt come over to c me even tho i had asked him twice and then started sending me abusive text messages because I originally made a decision not to be with him.This kept on so I met with his mother to see if she could have a talk with him about responsibilities and i told her y we finished to begin with..She talked to him and later on I heard he was on a lads night out drinking.I still havn't seen him.He is now texting me saying i am a liar and a psycho and what he did is not abuse.That he done it for me and i just need to get over it.And that his brother and brothers wife are on his side and they have told him mam that he done nothing and i just had too much to drink.I am so disgusted that I feel like i never wanna see him again.I really dont know what to do and this is my first child and i am just so depressed.Any advice would really be appreciated...P.S sorry this is about ten years long

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Carmenere · 08/01/2009 00:38

Sorry to hear of your horrible predicament. Have you got much real life support? Parents or friends? I would think long and hard about tying yourself to this man for the rest of your life.

realtai · 08/01/2009 01:28

Yea I do have loads of support from friends, My mother knows about the situation but I didnt tell my dad. . I think he may be done for murder . . well not murder but ya know what i mean He know's that I am pregnant and is wondering why he has not seen me . . I know thats the problem I do not want to be tied to him for life. . But after giving birth to the baby I know him and his family would hound me ya know.. its a big mess at the moment . . Its just difficult cause this is my first child and i feel alone even though i amn't. .

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