im 20 weeks pregnant and my partner is in the navy so only gets home about once a month however he has been on his xmas leave for 2 weeks now and my libidos seem to have chosen this time to go awol. the 1st few days when he was home, we were fine, i wanted sex, enjoyed sex. but suddenly its just gone and as much as i try, i just dont want it. he's not helping issues by constantly pawing at me and whingeing that he's not getting it. he think's ive just decided not to give it to him. i do see his point that it has happened so suddenly but he cant seem to accept that it is something im not in control of at the minute. i think he thinks ive made up the word hormones. it really is getting to me as he is spending most of his time huffing now and he goes back on sunday. i can see he's doing a mental countdown for days left for him to have sex. has anyone else gone through this? what do i say to him to help him see its not personal.