Hi, I'm 13 weeks at the moment, had insomnia really badly with the first baby (but then am pretty insomniac anyway) and, this time, it's even worse. It's 2am now and I have been thinking about it so much, I thought, 'right, it's time to get on Mumsnet'. And here you all are...
I may try the Piriton and have always done the hot chocolate in the middle of the night thing. I've currently got a cup of camomile tea in front of me and I did read yesterday that there's something at Neal's Yard called 'Perfect sleep' or something. I am going to hotfoot it down there.
DH had such a go at me yesterday about wandering about in the middle of the night that I'm sure that's why I woke up even earlier than usual at 1am. I went to bed at 11am - much later than usual - because I'm so tired, I often go to bed while he's cooking supper at 7/7.30, wake up to eat, have a bath and go back to bed by 9/10. Hopeless routine. I then sleep until maybe 3/4am and then sometimes am awake until P wakes up at 6.30/7. As you've said above, not good in the daytime and end up being a cranky, horrid person. Not good for anybody.
My sister (who doesn't suffer insomnia and writes for a national newspaper - ie does lots of health stories) says I should not stimulate myself and should just lie there and wait to go back to sleep. As she doesn't have insomnia, I don't think she knows how frustrating it is to just lie there. Believe me, I have tried this many times through life! I remember being awake a lot in the night as a child.
More hints and tips would be great as I really would like to get some sleep from 13 weeks...!