Hi Mrsqboring,
I am Annie from Hanoi, Vietnam, but partially I am a Harrower as I lived in Harrow for nearly 8 years and just came back to Vietnam a year ago.
At last I found someone on the same board.
I found out my baby has CCAM on 22nd week scan, exactly a month ago, on the 27th Nov08.From then I went to about another 4 scans, with leading doctors. The baby has CCAM type 2 in his left lung pushing his heart to the far right and make no room for the right lung to develop.They said CCAM develops in all of his left lung, and they all advised me to cancel my pregnancy.
I went around the internet, found out that if the baby is not developing hydrops and he can survive until after 32 weeks, he will have operation after birth, and then with many other things can happen. Worrying about the little baby has operation, which must be very painful for him, I went to hospital to cancel my pregnancy. I stayed in there for 2 weeks, on and off by the weekends, and I had some medicine transfusion to my blood to make me go into early labour. They couldn't use anything else because I had a C section only over 2 years ago when I gave birth to my 1st child. After 15 of 500ml bottles, the baby is still there and I don't feel any pain/ blood leaking... any sights of early labour at all.
The option they said now, that I have another C section to take the baby out. I was confused. If I need to take the baby out that way, I would leave the baby there until it due date or at least until it develops hydrops. In the last attemp, I texted one leading baby surgeon, asking his opinion. To my surprise, he called me the next morning, telling me to keep the baby, and he will operate for the baby once the baby is born.
I've checked out the hospital the same day after asking if the medicine I used harm the baby and they said no.
I am now at home, worried and confused. My family side, with 2 doctors and other rational people, keep saying I have to cancel my pregnancy, because the ill baby will ruin my life. My husband's family, on the other side, fully support my decision to keep the baby and they said they will even sell the house to fund the baby's treatment.
I am due to get back to the hospital to give them my final answer today, but I just avoid doing everything and going anywhere.
It is a hard decision but I want to give the baby every chance he has.
Ladies, what is your opinion?
Mrs G, hug and hug.
Annie