Hi bamboo,
You walk into the room with a risk factor based on your age. Older women are statistically more likely to have babies with chromosomal abnormalities. (I'll use the word you used to keep things consistent )
The nuchal fold measurement is used to tweak this risk factor up or down. What they have found is that thicker nuchal folds tend to be found more commonly in babies with chromosomal abnormalities. (It's not 100% reliable though, so bare this in mind !)
So, they start with your maternal age-related risk, and then they adjust that depending on how thick / thin the nuchal fold is. By doing this, they increase the chances of 'catching' a fetus with a chromosomal abnormality. (I will repeat that even when they combine these two factors, it is still not 100% reliable).
Finally, the researchers found that if they do a certain blood test at the same time as measuring the nuchal fold, and analyse two substances in the mother's blood (they're called HcG and PAPP-A), they can increase even more their chances of correctly identifying a fetus with chromosomal abnormalities.
But, even with all these factors, these tests won't be 100% reliable 100% of the time. (If you know the mother's age, you measure the nuchal fold, and you do the blood tests, this is called 'doing a Combined Test' and will tend to catch about 90% of all fetuses with chromosomal abnormalities. This means that (1) they sometimes 'miss' problems and (2) they sometimes tell you they think there's a prblem when infact there isn't ! (That's called a false positive).
You're right in thinking that if you wouldn't have a termination, all these numbers can be argued to be pretty much irrelevant, but at the same time, it can sometimes help mothers prepare to care for babies with problems by knowing about what to expect as early as possible.
I hope this has clarified things for you.
I suspect that your pregnancy may be too far advanced for them to measure and advise you based on nuchal fold thickness, so you may well find that Friday is a general scan where the sonographer will look for a beating heart, nicely formed nose / spine and other magical little body parts.
I hope it goes very well for you. If you post your age, I can look up a standard risk factor if that helps.