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Can't feel the baby moving (18 wks) sould i worry?

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nobodysfool · 21/08/2008 22:56

I have felt movements from early on in this pregnancy-this is dc #2.
But over the last 2 weeks i have only felt one very small movement.
I have total previa and have had 5 major hemmorages(sp?) in the last 3 weeks.
I'm sure the baby is ok as i listen to its heartbeat with a fetal monitor everynight and all sounds well but it's really worrying me that i can't feel and movement.
Is it possible that he/she has moved so far back that i'm not feeling the movements anymore?
I have got a scan next week but i just need a bit of advice really,Sorry if this all sounds paranoid.

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cece · 21/08/2008 22:57

I think you should phone the day assessment unit and see if you can pop in for some reassurance. I had soemthing similar to this.

lisad123 · 21/08/2008 22:59

if your worried go in to hospital, better to be safe. You know your body and your baby so you know whats not normal for you. I know I didnt feel much at 18wks, just butterfly type movement. Hope your ok

bethoo · 21/08/2008 22:59

most people do not feel the baby move til well after 20 weeks so as long as you can hear the heart beat i would not panic too much.

nobodysfool · 21/08/2008 23:01

I would feel like a fake going into hosp as i can hear the babys heartbeat.I think i need to get a grip!

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cece · 21/08/2008 23:02

I agree with lisa - you know when something isn't right, even when the midwives say things like not every one even feels their baby move at 18 weeks.

nobodysfool · 21/08/2008 23:07

my midwife is worse than rubbish.
She is impossible to contact and doesn't return any phone calls.

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lisad123 · 21/08/2008 23:10

cece I knew with both of mine that something wasnt right never good, and how do you explain a gut feeling to a doc

cece · 21/08/2008 23:11

Yes I was right too

nobodysfool · 21/08/2008 23:14

now i'm really worrying....

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lisad123 · 21/08/2008 23:15

if your worried please go, my girls were fine in the end, just to say that. but please trust your gut feelings. I didnt care how stupid i felt, i would have kicked myself if something worse had happened.

cece · 21/08/2008 23:20

Yes but you can hear a heartbeat so that is a positive.

If I were you I would get seen at the day assessment unit tomorrow, you can phone and go direct without speaking to your mw usually.

nobodysfool · 21/08/2008 23:44

ok.thanks for your advice.x

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nobodysfool · 21/08/2008 23:44

ok.thanks for your advice.x

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JayneF · 21/08/2008 23:52

I was 22 wks before I felt either of mine.

cece · 22/08/2008 10:26

How are you today nobodysfool?

CuckooClockWorkOrange · 22/08/2008 10:28

You're entitled to be anxious because of the haemorraging though. But a heartbeat means baby is well.

Upwind · 22/08/2008 10:30

Hope you've had good news.

I am in a similar situation and have just devoured a magnum in three mouthfulls in the hope of shocking the baby into moving.

It didn't work

nobodysfool · 23/08/2008 12:56

Still no movement but listened to their heatbeat this morning and heard lots of movement.I think they have just moved so far back it cant feel it!

Upwind-Try a mars bar and a can of full fat coke -it worked everytime with ds.
How are you today?

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